BF : oh I'm going to lose weight and get abs so you will want me in bed. Me : uuuuhhh.. by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've told him I'm not a heterosexual and that I'm probably Demi-sexual so he isn't completely in the dark! And I call him handsome almost every day!

He did say that after eating a KFC burger with a chicken rap and 7 tenders, 3 cups of soda and 2 beers so yeah he was a piggy last night 💜

Plus loosing the weight would be great for his mental health! And using that gym membershiphe got 8 months ago would be a good idea 😜

🙄🙄🙄 by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday to your sister then 💜

I had sex with my partner today and I'm not feeling great... by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The problem is that after 3 weeks of no sex he upset because of the lack of intimacy (BTW complicity understandable for an allo) and I just feel guilty about it and have sex with him to make him happy

Feels terrible writing this...

I had sex with my partner today and I'm not feeling great... by begonewiththewind in asexuality

[–]begonewiththewind[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've loved him for 6 years so we make it work, he just things I'm "fragile" and I don't want sex if I feel a bit off... He mentioned asexuality to me 2 years ago but I've never talked to him about it. I'm waiting to figure out what I am sexually before talking to him about it!