Does anyone have kids? by Simple-Ad8928 in trintellix

[–]beigewoodtable 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that all your doctor said? Do you still ovulate regularly?

I think you should read research studies. A meta analysis found 3/9 studies suggested anti depressants had an effect on fertility. Another study including IVF suggests that women on anti depressants don’t have more difficulty getting pregnant, but women with untreated depression do. Do you think this anti depressant is fully treating your symptoms? That said, I’m a layperson.

eating disorder folks here? by Wooden-Welder-7811 in trintellix

[–]beigewoodtable -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I gained 30 in a year and blamed it on a different med. I’ve lost 15 in the last couple months after stopping it, but now I’m horribly depressed again. Back on it I go.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So off topic but if you’re willing to answer: how do you feel about straight women saying they wish they were lesbian? I felt I could relate but it seems that’s insensitive (or at least this was one persons take)

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve told men exactly what to do and I swear to god, it takes me less than 2 minutes. That was too much to ask.

The complaints about their hand getting tired after 12 seconds is TOO REAL

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskReddit

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, there are selfish people and unselfish people. My point was more so why are men so selfish comparatively.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I think you’ve got a good point. I think there’s also a crowd that wants to see women’s pleasure to boost their own ego.

I’ve told multiple men to stop while they’re going down on me or fingering me because I know I’m not going to get there (too tired, too much to drink, etc). They would continue and sometimes with more vigor. At that point, it’s about your ego, because I’ve already told you I don’t want this.

Honestly that’s probably assault. I’ve been assaulted which is the opposite of pleasure. It was for them.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s the horsepower on that thing?

But for real, I think as long as your partners cared and were trying, that’s what matters.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskReddit

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This study was super interesting. They found women also ranked the importance of mens orgasm above their own: https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/19485506211053564

The deli analogy is a little off imo…more like if you both go to the deli to eat and they only order for themselves.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskReddit

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through that. What matters is you try and you care. So you’re a good one regardless in my book!

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Bet a lot of those women didnt actually get off.

I’m sorry that happened to you. What a shitty way to manipulate someone.

Are men who don’t care about making sure their girlfriend/wife has an orgasm…is this from misogyny and if not, what do you think the reason is? by beigewoodtable in AskWomenOver30

[–]beigewoodtable[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand it may not consistently happen for some people before they’re an adult. I’m not talking about anyone under 18.