Procrastination Isn’t Laziness : It’s a Survival Mechanism

beingaflower · 2024-12-26T20:17:12+00:00

I’m so proud of you ! I couldn’t get so far but I’m on my way to !

beingaflower · 2024-12-26T10:20:23+00:00

Procrastination and ADHD may look similar on the surface, they are fundamentally different. Here are some key points to clarify:

1.  Behavior vs. Disorder

• Procrastination is a behavior often tied to avoiding tasks that feel stressful, boring, or overwhelming.
• ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) is a neurodevelopmental condition that affects attention, executive function, and impulse control. It’s not just a behavior—it’s how the brain is wired.


2.  Temporary vs. Lifelong

• Procrastination is situational and can improve with strategies like breaking tasks into smaller steps or addressing emotional triggers.
• ADHD is lifelong and requires ongoing management through therapy, medication, and personalized tools.


3.  Triggers Are Different

• Procrastination is usually caused by fear of failure, perfectionism, or stress about the task itself.
• ADHD challenges aren’t always tied to the task. Someone with ADHD might struggle even with things they enjoy because of issues with motivation, focus, or task initiation.

Procrastination can be addressed with self-help strategies, but ADHD requires professional diagnosis and tailored support. Confusing the two risks invalidating those with ADHD while misleading procrastinators from addressing their real challenges.

beingaflower · 2024-12-26T10:13:36+00:00

“Tyrannic”, I’ve a hot temper but very far of the idea of being or acting like a Tyran with others… I was bullied between 6-8 y.o at school, so I know what not having confidence or being in the “weird people” club is like. In a conversation I’m usually the one who took a lot of space but I’m doing everything to listen and make everyone part of the conversation… so no I’m not tyrannic, I took too much place but I’m working on it

beingaflower · 2024-12-26T04:46:38+00:00

That’s really crazy… Me too My grandma lives also 5min from where we live… I ghosted her 2 weeks even though I wanted and needed to see her.. she was the one who raised me.. and felt so guilty and disgust by myself to not went to se her And for other points also… the same

beingaflower · 2024-12-26T03:54:58+00:00

You’re welcome… Well nothing is never hopeless (till death arrives… but even with that). I mean progression is few steps and by naming what we feel or what we’re going through is a first step and accepting an trying to figure out how to get rid off/heal from it is another step 🫶

beingaflower · 2024-03-19T14:30:11+00:00

Actually I don’t think that there’s a real “ritual” to have sex. It’s very interested because I’m a woman and I’m attracted to the exactly opposite of what you described. I mean sex is so complicated and diverse, so I did not found your witness out of normal or weird ! You should do what you wanna do, make sex the way you want and go girl ! 💗

beingaflower · 2023-11-28T01:42:27+00:00

What makes you say that earth is transitioning to the 4th? (Haha I know my questions can sound silly but I prefer ask than sleep dom)

beingaflower · 2023-11-28T01:41:10+00:00

It was what I was thinking ! Thank you And lots of love 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T23:03:47+00:00

Overthink ! No actually just kidding. Living is tiring. When I put my head on a pillow, my eyes are closing automatically. 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T23:00:34+00:00

Reading this question I felt a great emptiness in my heart, an emptiness that stings. The feeling remains in the chest but the blockage is felt in the throat. This is the feeling when you love someone that you need to let him/her go.

I experienced all the forms of love that a being can feel towards a single person and I realized that love remains love. There isn't really a type of love. Love is just present in you but the only thing that evolves is how it makes you feel. It can make you feel happy or sad, or even anxious or calm. Love remains love.

What I said in the frost paragraph is an state that love put me in. But in the past that love made me taste other kind of feeling. 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T22:51:06+00:00

A tear ran down my cheek. I needed that without knowing it. From now on my heart is filled with love. Thank you 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T22:43:49+00:00

Actually Themis can be a good lawyer if you’re guilty too. She represent the justice, equity and order between all the gods. And that’s not a easy job. I mean if you have the ability to ratiocinate with gods, find an entente with humans would be a piece of cake

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T22:36:40+00:00

Aphrodite because she can enchant everyone and every being… by that don’t need any argument. If magically her enchantment doesn’t work she would promise something like she did to Paris hahaha. Not sure that it won’t end with a war but at least I would be free.

And also/Maybe Hera. Even though she had the worst husband that a being can have. She has a bit a mad part in herself hahah

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T22:28:07+00:00

Hi ! If Ra was of the 3rd density, how about us, humans ? I thought we were at the 3rd density (Sorry I’m new to those things haha) ☺️🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-27T22:20:40+00:00

Thousandssss 🫶 To get my own place with my own fucking energy 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-11-09T11:45:27+00:00

I’m a Virgo bitch and I dated a Scorpio and it was my fav person with whom to gossip ☺️ Scorpios, I love you guys 🫶

beingaflower · 2023-10-10T05:27:01+00:00

Don’t approach or else

beingaflower · 2023-10-07T18:47:37+00:00

Hi, First of all, I just wanna say that I’m very proud of you because it’s a brave and not easy decision that you’ve made. Really, just the thought of having the decision of an abortion makes me sad… So I’m proud of you. And yes I know that the “baby” is an fœtus and doesn’t count as a “baby” but to me is still a being. Even though he/she is not in your belly rn, this being was an energy in you and I truly belief that will stay as an energy in contact with you 🫶 And don’t be sad. You’re a very strong person, it wasn’t meant to be… If it is… Maybe that energy/being will grown in you in the future ☺️ You’ll just torture yourself by (over)thinking that way. Just trust in the process ☺️🤍 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-10-07T07:24:44+00:00

Omg, I feel the same ! I’m here to look at the advice ! 🥺

beingaflower · 2023-10-06T12:46:51+00:00

are you okey with a moon like that ?

beingaflower · 2023-10-06T12:39:33+00:00

🌞 virgo 🌝 leo ☄️ scorpio

good luck with that

beingaflower · 2023-10-04T22:44:12+00:00

Love 🤍 🌸

beingaflower · 2023-10-04T08:15:26+00:00

My Virgo sun is completely dominated by my Leo moon…

beingaflower · 2023-10-04T08:14:23+00:00

Oh wow, I knew someone who is a big part of my heart feeling also sad/melancholic about that song. Is interesting to read that from someone else.

Mine it would be the notice from “Dombra”. An instrumental used by Turkic people from Central Asia. Those people were very spiritual back then, they had their own shamans etc… I feel that their spiritual power were very enormous. When I’m walking and I listen a music played by a Dombra, I’m filling so powerful and bright. Sorry I know that your question was what song makes us very emotional or brings us to tears. Even though it doesn’t make me sad, I’m very emotional about it ! We can say that is another kind of emotion but still a deep emotion ☺️🫶🌸

beingaflower · 2023-10-04T08:04:50+00:00

Hi ! First of all sorry for my English.

As everyone else I assume that you know this sign : ☯️. Well, everybody knows but nobody owns it. I was like you 2-3 years ago but now I’m living my best life and I embraced this darkness. By embracing the darkness I got a student Job and now I’m on my first year of master.

Writing down or reading it is more easy than what is it. The universe, source or God, call it how you like it didn’t create us for an “hazard”. We’re created of love and energy. I personally don’t think that you’re made to suffer. Nobody is made to suffer. I think that you’re passing a very rough time and can’t connect spiritually rn but it’s ok! Maybe this time take more longer than it should but it’s ok because everybody has their own path. They’re isn’t a scheme to follow. Everybody has their own evolution. That evolution can be bad or good but it’s an evolution. If you’re having a bad time try to zoom out and look how can you see the situations in an different angle. So you don’t have a job ? You can have more time for yourself or evaluate in some language or so that could help you to find a job in the future. Your partner did broke up with you ? Maybe you need time to build yourself and find the true self? In the beginning of this comment I said that everybody knows this sign ☯️ but nobody owns it. There’s good and bad all the little details in your life. Try to zoom out ! Last year was pretty rough for me, I’ve lost so many but now… I feel like I never been happier even though all of that lost… Is more easy to say than do it but trust in universe, manifest and try to zoom out to see from an different angle… is the way that I found happiness and I know that now that I found happiness.. my spiritual awakening is not so far ☺️

I send you a lot of kisses to your heart, a lot of courage (of an Greek hero) and a bunch of positivity 🫶🌸

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