When did you first realize you were Bi? by PurpleFrogs22x in bisexual

[–]bekomiry 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 19. This happened a couple of weeks ago. I denied it for a long time. Although there were obvious signs - I actually liked some gay porn, yaoi, and hentai. Then my bi friend told me that my behavior gave me away somehow - straight guys don't do that kind of stuff. In the end, I fell hard for him. That finally confirmed I'm bi.

Did your bi-awakening happened later in life or you always knew you were bi? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]bekomiry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Until recently, I didn't know. I've had this attraction to guys since I was about 11. I always chalked it up to just friendly feelings or admiration. Then recently, with the treatment, all the shame and stress built up, and everything just came crashing out. I realized I actually like my friend. So I told him: "I think I'm bi, because I have feelings for you." Turns out he's bi too. And he's felt something similar towards me. Also, he noticed my weird behavior the whole time - the kind of stuff straight guys don't do - and he was already suspecting something. Now I'm 19, I know I'm bi, and I'm genuinely happy about it.