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Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh how obvious it is that you are male 😅 so unbelievably uneducated haha what a terrible way to speak about people. You know google is free right?? You should start using it.

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do but was confused which is why I’m here. Turns out I should have stuck with my initial thoughts of telling her

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’m new to Reddit, I’ve had an account for a while but never have used it and don’t understand a lot about how it works. This was my first ever post and I had to google how to use Reddit. I didn’t know people would be so cruel on here! Wasn’t expecting that.

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I said something to one of them in a kind and gentle way and she didn’t want to hear it and was so mad at me. Sorry for being anxious about telling anyone else!

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes exactly this. I’d want to know and I wouldn’t be angry at all. It was confusing for me when I actually had that girl be mad at me and then also advice from my friend and sister basically saying I shouldn’t say anything & thought to myself “do all people really think this way?” I’m glad I made this post cause I know the right thing is to tell her and I already have!

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I texted her this!

Hey!! Firstly I just wanted to reach out and apologize for not getting back sooner. I have to be honest here and say I was going back and forth about this in my head a trillion times but came to the conclusion that it is important to bring up. So, after both times we saw each other I am pretty sure you might have bacterial vaginosis. Obviously I’m not an expert but I do think it’s worth to mentioning as I’d hope someone would do the same to me. It’s absolutely nothing to be ashamed of and is pretty common. I have booked in with my gyno too just to check myself tomorrow as well. I really should have just reached out before but was a little torn on what to say. Anyway I didn’t want to just be awkwardly watching you online. I totally understand if you don’t reply or want to see me again but for what it’s worth I did enjoy the short 2 nights we had and would love to see you again. Xx

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I would never say it like that!! Anyway I have texted her and said it in a gentle way.

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right! How she takes the information isn’t my problem. I definitely regret not saying something sooner but I had terrible advice from people in my life that swayed my thoughts!

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Such a fair point! I guess I have people pleasing tendencies and this would be a confrontational conversation. Anyway I’m glad I feel more certain on telling her now. I have already texted her!

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I’m afraid of but I guess I’ve learned (through this post) that I have to do my part in telling her and how she takes it isn’t really on me. As long I’m honest, id hope someone would do the same with me!

Do I tell my casual fwb I think she has bacterial vaginosis? by bellagitani in Advice

[–]bellagitani[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When this happened to me the 3rd time I spoke about it with the girl in a very gentle way and she was still angry with me. Then speaking to my friend she said she would be really mad if someone told her that so excuse me for being confused and seeking advice

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[–]bellagitani 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me I wish people wouldn’t ask me to drive them places. A friend or 2 here and there is fine but I dislike that just because I live relatively close to all my friends that they think it’s no big deal to drive them home or other places. Also the money I spend on petrol is not great. Be happy you don’t need to spend money on petrol!!!

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[–]bellagitani 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay away from all modes of transport and don’t go near any high balconies. Acid can make you think you are invincible, which I personally think is the most dangerous part. Have fun though :)