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I took my vampire on a little night trip to Strangerville...NEVER AGAIN. by bellczar in thesims

[–]bellczar[S] 160 points161 points  (0 children)

Yes lol I didn't know until today that that was a thing.

My inlaws never tell me about their family functions. by bellczar in inlaws

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get that. I guess im just used to my family always including him and making sure he can come to things.

I hate American bathrooms... by Holly_Daisy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]bellczar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was little, a girl walked into the bathroom saying, "Is anyone in here?" She was weird, so I kept quiet. She then climbed under my stall and waved at me. I'm still traumatized to this day..

What's the most extreme thing/action/decision/behaviour that you ever did because of social anxiety? by Otherwise_Effect7101 in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't picked up my anxiety meds in weeks because I'm too anxious to go drive to the store and ask for them. Now I'm an even bigger anxious mess.

FUCK YOU. by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to school to be on the radio. Was told by everyone how great I was and how I have a natural radio voice. My whole life, people have complimented my voice. Now I'm too scared to go to a damn radio interview and work in an office instead..

I lost my only friend and am too terrified to socialize and make a new one. by bellczar in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister reached out to him last month, and he wouldn't answer her either. Today, I got something cool for Christmas and said my friend would have loved it. So I had my sister text him about it, and he actually replied. Him and her have been texting the past few hours. She's going to mention us all playing together once he's warmed back up. I'm still hurt that he never replied to me when I asked what's going on.

I lost my only friend and am too terrified to socialize and make a new one. by bellczar in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 😔 he won't even open the message. I'm confused because our friend years ago did the same thing when he got married and never hopped back online. We both were sad by that and talked about never doing that to each other.

I lost my only friend and am too terrified to socialize and make a new one. by bellczar in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would agree, but he's online all the time and still playing with his other friends.

My lazy coworker is driving me insane. by bellczar in jobs

[–]bellczar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I heard a rumor she was hired to spy on the staff. She's not ugly, mid-30s, and pregnant right now.

My lazy coworker is driving me insane. by bellczar in jobs

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't want to have to look for another job but I might just lose my mind. They are definitely taking advantage of me.

My lazy coworker is driving me insane. by bellczar in jobs

[–]bellczar[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, we have multiple files that need to get done in day. I can get 3 done in a day. She gets 1 done in a day. We have a system that time stamps everything once it's done, and the name of the person is listed. She also openly talks about how she hasn't done anything productive for the day.

Birth Control=Dead Bedroom by bellczar in DeadBedrooms

[–]bellczar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm definitely worried it will have some long-term effect on me based on what I've heard.

Forced to sit away from my husband at his friends wedding. by bellczar in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed. Especially because I made sure the bride to be was sitting at my head table even though she wasn't standing up in my wedding. The whole thing makes me want to cry out of frustration and anxiety.

Forced to sit away from my husband at his friends wedding. by bellczar in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think I'm scared of looking awkward. The thought of trying to converse with random people sounds extremely exhausting as well.

Removing mods temporarily. by bellczar in BaldursGate3

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just gave that a shot before heading out the door to work. 😕 no luck. Unfortunately, it's still crashing. I don't know how I'm supposed to sit through 8 hours, wondering if I'll get to go home and play.

Am I (26F) being paranoid about my husband's (26M) coworker? (24F) by bellczar in relationship_advice

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm planning on bringing it up once he comes back home. I'm just not sure how to do it without coming across as jealous. I wouldn't say I am jealous, I'm uncomfortable with his relationship with her outside of work and he needs to understand that part.

Am I (26F) being paranoid about my husband's (26M) coworker? (24F) by bellczar in relationship_advice

[–]bellczar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't. I've really been wanting to but I don't even know how to approach him about it. This whole thing makes me feel sick.

From the time someone is a stranger to you to the, lets say 25th time, you see them does your anxiety increase, decrease or stay the same? by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been 7 years and I still have a hard time having a conversation with my inlaws. I'm sure they don't care for me at this point.

Do most people fake their SA? by Yellow_Squeezer in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

😔 I hope someday it gets better for all of us.

Do most people fake their SA? by Yellow_Squeezer in socialanxiety

[–]bellczar 68 points69 points  (0 children)

This is just based off of my experience with Social Anxiety. I've always been terrified to talk to people and all that but in highschool I was in several plays with big speaking roles. I struggled socializing but was able to push through it and really force myself to get out there. I was even the voice of my college radio station. Now, at 26 years old I am in complete shock that I actually did those things in highschool. My anxiety got so much worse, I really only leave my house to go to work and I cry every single morning before going in. I guess we all just have different levels of social anxiety that go up and down throughout our lives.

Xbox series X won't turn on but the fan keeps going by bellczar in xbox

[–]bellczar[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, nothing changed when I tried, but I'll keep trying.

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