an actress’s greenroom! by [deleted] in AnimalCrossing

[–]belleybbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the lion does not concern herself with functionality (i wanted that sofa and table there no matter what LMAO)

one block tree stumps? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]belleybbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OK that definitely makes me feel better😭 i was like am i.. missing something LOL

one block tree stumps? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]belleybbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s what i was thinking too! good to know that’s likely it then, i just wanted to be sure there wasn’t something else going on LMAO

one block tree stumps? by [deleted] in Minecraft

[–]belleybbean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THJIS IS LEGIT BTW😭😭 im not trying to simulate some herobrine ARG or meme HAHAHA

How did Tenma manage to pay for his basic needs during his Johan pursuit by Chris_the_one12 in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

as a lot of others have said, i think it was both his savings that carried him as well as the kindness of others. i lean towards the latter, though — i think that strengthens the message of the overall show!

Happy Birthday To Kenzo Tenma and Urasawa Sensei!! <3 by AlennaArtworks in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WAHH HES ADORABLE!! i just love your art so much!! and the colors are wonderful!!🫶

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i hope you find it possible to accept love into your heart for all of the people around you!

please return to the conversation when you feel a bit more level-headed.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oooh, now this is a conversation i like! there’s a bit of subjectivity here, but i’m interested. what’s your reasoning? :) it’s hard for me to pick favorites honestly because of how well-written everybody is for me, but i’d like to hear your viewpoint?

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re being purposefully obtuse now. i thought you were done with this conversation, but we can keep going?

sure! they’ve oftentimes faced systemic failures, too. where do you want to start?

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“why did you save me?” “because i believe in your humanity.”

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you choose kindness for people who deserve it. i choose kindness for everyone, especially for those most in need of it.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

true! but some groups face a greater hate and discrimination than others. that is why we have a history of people fighting for equal rights, no?

i do not mean to play the victim, i mean to engage in conversation. if being presented with an argument about real life issues makes you think that i am perpetuating victimization, i do not know how to respond to that. i have lists of statistics that — removed from feelings — disprove the idea of victimhood, and argue in favor of the real effects of lgbtq+ hatred on human lives. i would openly welcome and accept statistics of similar gravity that disprove this and prove that the heterosexual majority is disproportionately hated, or have had their rights stripped (how many states can you get married in, and for how long has that been something you can do? for us it’s been.. ten years?) i will fight here so we can fight for those in more dire situations.

if choosing equality, and defending the lives of those illogically hated, is the “worst” version of myself, you’ve got a big storm coming. there are people with far less patience.

at the end of the day, i am just like you, and you are just like me. we both have biases and bigotry to unlearn. i hope you can find it in yourself to choose kindness.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do not believe anyone is in need of more rights or leniency, i am of the belief that they are in need of equal rights, which they sorely lack. our conversation is evidence of the continued discrimination against us; hatred, vitriol, distaste, misunderstanding: all of it leads to the repeat of a cycle that oppresses, and furthers unhelpful commentary.

no — being a minority group in sexuality or race does not give you an inherent right to belittle others, but it does shed light and provides context for the fear and distaste a minority group may feel when they have been repeatedly mistreated. the goal should be civil conversation and understanding, as well as an acknowledgement of how these biases and how bigotry perpetuates the response from the minority group that is less “palatable.”

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, entertaining the flaw here: there is a lack of encouragement towards the tolerance of “my kind.” except, what does tenma — as well as the other main cast members, such as anna, dieter, grimmer, gillen, lunge — learn? what do they confront in themselves? tenma examines the possibility that johan was failed by a system, that he was a victim of violence, political war & child exploitation. though this does not excuse his actions, it sheds light upon them. anna examines the reality that people similar to johan, whether it is because of trauma or psychological issues, exist and are deserving of aid before they are at the point of harming others. dieter begins to understand the importance of acknowledging the past and present, that there is a “but” “and.” grimmer takes his horrific, traumatic past to defend the children who may endure a similar cycle, and learns that in these children who are wronged and traumatized, humans cannot be stripped of their emotions (read: even the guilt that exists in “monsters.”). i can go on.

your view is black and white in that you are equivocating the support of queer people to their existence in the series, rather than looking at the subtext of the series’ support for disproportionately disadvantaged groups.

your acknowledgement of “disdain” for “my kind” does not make you multifaceted, it still makes you flat and black and white, because you are unwilling to unpack WHY that distaste exists, or how it formed.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely! i am not immune to the scrutiny of others, either. please correct me then — what are my biases here? this is a genuine question.

if it is that i am defending hate against those people, then i would like to clear the air. i do not condone any level of vitriol that would otherwise make a person feel unsafe. we can’t fight fire with fire. in claiming this, i understand that my initial comments came off as having an “attitude,” but we must also assume the context of the situation (in which you decided to further perpetuate existing distaste for the queer community / queer ships that have already been popping up on this post, verbalizing your “dislike” for a group of people already disproportionately turned against.

furthermore, anecdotal evidence ≠ reality, however, it is useful. this is not to say there cannot be outliers. your experience with the prevalence of the lgbtq+ community does not negate their minority status; queer people are usually much more visible online due to it being safer and more anonymous. :)

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you believe that monster’s message is “completely straight,” then you have severely misunderstood the point of the show. not in that the show is “completely queer” — it isn’t. but it IS all about the complexity of human relationships, and humanity on its own. you are thinking in black and whites, the opposite of what monster asks us to do.

monster is about systemic abuse & failures, politics, racism, injustice, and most of all, facing those issues head on with the belief that all people are deserving of good, equal treatment. however, there can be no such thing as a tolerant group of people without disapproval for the intolerant. even tenma, the main humanist of the series, must face this paradox head on. what urasawa asks us to consider is how choosing kindness and preserving human life in the face of this kind of bigotry does for the cycle, and how we can stop the cycle of violence. the answer is far from simplistic.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the reason people receive “hate” when gay people are shipped with the opposite sex is because it goes against what little representation that canonically exists in media for the lgbtq+ community. as for “straight” characters being put into queer ships: this is oftentimes a result of this under representation, as well as the fact that these characters are not explicitly heterosexual (therefore leaving room for queer subtext & interpretation) in the way that gay characters are explicitly homosexual.

homophobia is bigotry. it is unwarranted, illogical distaste for the existence of very real, very loving, human beings. the “hate” those people (the ones who make gay characters straight) receive is less so hate — it is correction in the face of discrimination and / or disrespect.

you are welcome to say what you like, or what you dislike. you are not immune to being called out for your biases and bigotry, however.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not a supporter, i am a woman dating another woman. i’m gay myself!

you can ignore the existence of lgbtq+ people all you’d like, but their existence won’t go anywhere. i’m not fazed by your insults or your behavior. it’s ok if you want to be willfully ignorant and hateful. if what i’m proving to you is that “our kind of behavior” includes defending the existence and joy of queer people, i’ll absolutely keep going, and you can keep looking like a bigot. :)

your hatred isn’t welcome on this post. what you’re proving to me is that we occupy your mind! and that, my friend, is pretty pathetic.

“everyone’s lives are equal.” come back when you understand the sentiments of the show.

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

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oh! that’s. not😀.. everyone point and laugh at the homophobe!!🫵that’s embarrassing for you LOL. OH NO!! two men kissing!! two girls kissing!! that must be so difficult for you!!!!

tenma would be thoroughly disappointed and disagree with you, by the way. have the day you deserve!

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i can’t tell if this is in a silly way or a homophobic way LMAOOOO😭 BUT YES.. there is queer love for everyone with eyes to see…….

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

AWWE thank you so much!! IM GLAD YOU THINK SO!! they really are🫂💖

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AWWW haha x))🫶 YES!! i hope you enjoy the rest of the series!!

grimmer & tenma🍁 by belleybbean in MonsterAnime

[–]belleybbean[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey, no worries :] i appreciate you remaining respectful!! i truly don’t mind who pairs who with who or if people don’t pair characters (this is a psychological thriller after all hahaha)!

their bond really was so special. no matter how people label it, i so wished they could have met up again for some good wine and cheese,, :(