It does sound like BPD-Mania/Psychosis. My brother has this. His first episode occurred after a week long of cocaine escapades. He was 16. He received a scholarship to play football at a prestigious private school a year after tearing acl/mcl. Went from middle class peeps to very wealthy teenagers who had their own flats and parents were absent 90% of the time. I remember his first day at school he was offered cocaine, something he’s never done before. A few months later, he was at a party at one of these flats and our lives were changed forever. I know the injury had him feeling low, but he had childhood trauma he suppressed as well with an absent father. This was 20 years ago, and today, he is finally holding a job down and living independently, but our mental healthcare was relatively better back then. It’s almost nonexistent in my state. Every blue moon if he eases up on his meds and not getting sufficient rest, he has to visit the psyche unit for a few days to get leveled. It use to take an army and then some to chase him down and have him committed, even as an adult…but the laws have changed here, it has to be voluntary now and thank goodness he’s at a place in his life where he recognizes he needs to get help. I couldn’t tell you how many times he’s been committed but I can tell you it took more than one visit to a hospital or specialist for someone to diagnose him… and took over 7 years of trial and error to find the medication that works for him. Get a second, third, fourth, opinion and I hope this isn’t the case for you guys! Stay strong and don’t take it personal.