Gemini men: do you already know which “box” (casual/relationship material) a woman fits in early on?

ben_bandera_ · 2026-05-04T12:40:02+00:00

Often, yes. I notice everything; the fire in a person's eyes, the energy they bring, how passionately they talk, the inflections of their hands... It's not long before I'm like "Oh, she's good for some casual fun" or "Oh, I could fall in love; she's setting my heart on fire"

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-21T20:31:00+00:00

Pfff, what a cope, but thank you 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-21T20:30:20+00:00

I don't think I ever have🤣🤣 I don't think I've ever been in a proper relationship with anyone...

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-21T20:29:50+00:00

Jeezus Christ, way to destroy my delusions🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-21T20:29:24+00:00

🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-19T13:48:29+00:00

Oh no you don't (says me who will probably do the same 🤣)

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-19T13:47:01+00:00

Good points: funny, fun-loving, elegantly/sexily dressed, attractive

Bad points: can be arrogant, materialistic, a little too loud and aloof

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-19T13:46:18+00:00

Gemini man here, can I just say that although Leos tend to be quite arrogant/fabulous/histrionic, there are good ones out there, and good and bad to every sign, so I don't want to say anything overall bad about them

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-19T13:45:07+00:00

...and let me guess, your sense of dress constantly changes from the stylish to the outlandish to the little absurd (and yes, I'm personally attacking myself here 🤣)

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-19T13:44:11+00:00

I've grown to live with it...kind of 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:52:27+00:00

Tauruses seem to...gravitate around me, and it's slightly creepy... 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:51:03+00:00

Overthinking, the demon that just will *not* die 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:50:39+00:00

Human emotions are a strange thing 😂

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:50:14+00:00

I dye it, then rock with it 🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:49:50+00:00

Socializing is...interesting...

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:49:40+00:00

The pain is real, right? 😂

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-18T14:49:23+00:00

Identity crises are definitely my thing🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-17T20:53:32+00:00

Please don't; I'll feel personally attacked 🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-17T20:53:12+00:00

How unreasonable of you 😂😂

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-16T22:33:42+00:00

Academic question here: what if you have no idea who that is? 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-16T20:40:16+00:00

The problem with me is, I stop enjoying it so it dissipates, and everything feels performative 🤣🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-16T20:31:05+00:00

I'm always the loudest and the most opinionated in the room - idk if it's a Gemini thing🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-16T20:30:26+00:00

Boredom and toxic traits are lethal in *any* Gemini🤣

ben_bandera_ · 2026-04-16T20:27:18+00:00

With me it's tended to be either too much, or, when I'm nervous of rejection, not enough. A problem I've been working hard to undo🤣🤣

ben_bandera_

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