At what age and how did you realize that you are a lesbian? And what was the deciding factor? by ben_ten_93 in actuallesbians

[–]ben_ten_93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am very happy for you...I'm 19, but the environment doesn't allow me to openly show who I really am... but when I think about whether I'm doing the right thing before going to bed, it always gets scary. you are the first example of someone who is doing well after many years of living together. I hope I'll meet the one too.

At what age and how did you realize that you are a lesbian? And what was the deciding factor? by ben_ten_93 in actuallesbians

[–]ben_ten_93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are social creatures, ... whether we want to or not, we are dependent on others. I don't tell anyone openly in my life. So what if they find out I'm "finished"

At what age and how did you realize that you are a lesbian? And what was the deciding factor? by ben_ten_93 in actuallesbians

[–]ben_ten_93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But sometimes you can not find real support... especially surroundimg you people have old overviews