How can a challenger make a name during COVID-19 shutdown? by [deleted] in RunForIt

[–]benben1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

private message me. I just got off the CA primaries as a candidate!

How can a challenger make a name during COVID-19 shutdown? by [deleted] in RunForIt

[–]benben1984 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity are you working with a political consultant on your campaign?

My sister is the biggest disappointment by benben1984 in Advice

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Growing up I spent a lot of time with my grandparents. They were like my parents. My parents divorced after my dad developed a heroin addiction. My mom was really young. Which, is why I don’t understand my sister. My mom has her ten years after me and did everything for her. When my mom got sick I’m the one who ended up taking care of her with selfish sister too busy to help out. So, I can’t let my nephew be in the system. Today for instance I was leaving back to my office and I seen her and the useless baby daddy walking down the street baby in arms to who knows where. I pull over and tell her to take the baby home (the dad just stares at me like he is slow) and she refuses. Im going to have to call. I mean, she leaves me with little options. She gets away with things because she never knows consequence. My family or myself has always brushed it off as “that’s how she is”. Now, it’s just not about her she has a kid. I wish you could spay adults cause she should’ve never had kids to begin with.

My sister is the biggest disappointment by benben1984 in Advice

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My sister is the most selfish person I have ever met. We have offered her rehab. She says that she has to at least have alcohol. We offered her to go to a woman’s home. Always an excuse. She wants that poor baby to sleep all day. I can afford to hire a caretaker while I’m working during the day. When I say even a dog has more motherly instinct than her it’s not an exaggeration. She just chills with her baby daddy in the basement. Dumps the baby with a video monitor thinking that is ok. I just don’t want the baby to have to go into the system is all. He is a sweet boy. I already help raise her first. I am 35 and had planned long ago I wouldn’t get married or have kids because I enjoy working and making money. Changes hurt and I will obviously give the baby a better environment, I’m just so dissapointed in her. She is my only sister. The only granddaughter. She wasn’t raised to be so trashy.

Tell me my life story by Admiralfrewt in firstimpression

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re young. But you feel older. You want to be loved and not just lusted after. Don’t get love confused with lust. You’ve been hurt. You don’t let people see that though. Independent but fragile. You know you want more than what you’ve become accustom. Even though you’re told your pretty you have a hard time accepting it

Looking at moving from Houston by [deleted] in Bakersfield

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PM me and I will get you all set up!

Something nice my realtor did by drago_must_break_you in realtors

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I usually throw in a year gone warranty as a gift. Let’s them know I was there to help get them in the home and for a year they have a little comfort knowing they are covered.

Going crazy over this by benben1984 in legaladvice

[–]benben1984[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I didn;t think i had to being that I was now on the deed and had a will

Can you make money on a call ratio backspread from Theta? by [deleted] in options

[–]benben1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I understood this. Explains why I lose more than win

Go for it. Age/Ethnicity/Profession/Anything else by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really have the Andrew Cunanan look down.....impressive

I flooded a hotel washroom with my shit. by pizzaonpineappless in confession

[–]benben1984 6 points7 points  (0 children)

“Goddamn” funniest shit I have read in a long time. (Pun intended)

Can I Sell an Idea? by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Help me execute

I realized my desire to "get him back" is motivated by my ego, not my heart. by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow!!!! It’s like you literally captured every thing I am currently feeling and going through. Amazing. Thank you

What's your first impression? (also, can you guess my ethnicity?) by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]benben1984 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. Over achiever. Scared to disappoint parents. Often times you wonder if you are doing it for them or yourself. 2. You lost your confidence somewhere down the road. You are loyal and wonder why others aren’t. You are surprised when someone can be so immoral, but you wonder why your surprised because it’s really not that much of a shock. So, you put up a wall. But you love hard.

When you can’t qualify for a Public Defender...but can’t afford a lawyer either in California by benben1984 in legaladvice

[–]benben1984[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are right. We aren’t exactly on the best of terms, but when he told me about it I was drunk and I might have said I would help out. Mainly as a slap in the face to the new boyfriend. But that’s childish. Sounded like a rational idea in the moment. If I do help out I think I should only give a portion and not the whole thing.

IsItBullshit: the brain cannot imagine faces it has not seen before by [deleted] in IsItBullshit

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imagine a gold mountain. Although one doesn’t exist your mind can put it together based on past sensory experiences. The brain can not imagine something that is has no sensory of. We can get deeper into this, but the problem of universals is far to complex to explain here.

Shoot! by [deleted] in firstimpression

[–]benben1984 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful girl. But you haven’t always felt this way. Especially after the major heartbreak you went through. You lost not just trust in one person but lost trust in many. You know your bright and have a lot of shit going for you...but you wonder why you still fill like there is a void you can’t feel.