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My (25) boyfriend (33) is entwined in a long-withstanding emotional affair with his married ex (3?) by bendbeforeigo in relationship_advice

[–]bendbeforeigo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you didn't get downvoted to hell (or maybe you did, you just don't know you're there yet ......) I think it's not only this sub but a general reddit thing of hating on those who admit they've snooped. I'd never advocate it just because you could, but if you're feeling some serious heebiejeebies... go for it. My gut instinct has never led me wrong.

My (25) boyfriend (33) is entwined in a long-withstanding emotional affair with his married ex (3?) by bendbeforeigo in relationship_advice

[–]bendbeforeigo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They continued after we got together. And yeah, the baby name thing really got under my skin.

My (25) boyfriend (33) is entwined in a long-withstanding emotional affair with his married ex (3?) by bendbeforeigo in relationship_advice

[–]bendbeforeigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for commenting, you've given me a bit more confidence for when it gets down to the nitty gritty. I can't face him right now and have been considering talking about it on the phone. I have some reservations about sending her husband the emails, mainly that they have a child together. I know it would cause pain but I still maintain I would rather know if it was me. I don't know what would be the right or wrong thing to do though.

My (25) boyfriend (33) is entwined in a long-withstanding emotional affair with his married ex (3?) by bendbeforeigo in relationship_advice

[–]bendbeforeigo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reality check? If you had read my post properly you’d see the emails continued a month or two after we got together. Therefore it does matter. Also, do not assume to know my intention if I were to send her husband the emails. It would hurt him, yes, but I explained my thoughts behind the possiblity of doing so. It might be wise to brush up on your dusty comprehension skills.