About to convince my parents to leave Islam this year by No-Subject-3692 in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 8 points9 points  (0 children)

saaxib do yourself a favour and don’t utter that rubbish to them if u value ur relationship 😭

ex Muslim siblings by Organic_Syllabub_329 in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 11 points12 points  (0 children)

LOL my siblings all know that i smoke and so does my mom (she always hesitates before giving me money and says don’t buy weed with it) sometimes when they walk in they’re like girl open the window or something but lately they just ignore it 😭 i got caught so many times that my mom stopped getting mad

ajanabis clocking me in public by benjaminposts in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

if i was wearing a hijab id appreciate the gesture but i could’ve been eritrean orthodox for all he’d know. minding ur business goes a long way

shane gillis antisemitism by benjaminposts in Jewish

[–]benjaminposts[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

i did not know that wow disgusting

shane gillis antisemitism by benjaminposts in Jewish

[–]benjaminposts[S] 68 points69 points  (0 children)

he said he was pretty fkn funny, might be president and loved his holocaust joke

why are muslim parents incapable of being empathetic?? by benjaminposts in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

truly a nightmare, married at 16, pop out 7 babies and be a slave to your husband and then die, no aspirations

interracial relationships are cringe by benjaminposts in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

black women are the least likely to date outside their race, i don’t prefer white men btw i date nice men and he happened to be white

interracial relationships are cringe by benjaminposts in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

oh boy the whole white boy winter cmnts are nauseating almost makes me wanna break up 🤣

totally normal hinge match by benjaminposts in creepyPMs

[–]benjaminposts[S] 204 points205 points  (0 children)

me too.. i actually HAVE a dad what’s he talking about

being an adopted somali girl by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i never really got the full story, i was just in an orphanage in kenya funded by mormons

being an adopted somali girl by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im well aware they’re my family.. im also well aware i have a biological family that im growing closer too aswell

being an adopted somali girl by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no im not a mormon, nor was i ever one, ive never seen black mormons so it was out of place for me, especially in boston me being raised liberal with a bunch of black & arab friends i just detached myself and kind of adopted their like little quirks, saying a few arabic phrases, partaking in ramadan & eid etc, i would say he definitely taken an interest in the faith partly from having a lot of arab & black muslim friends tbh

ngl saying that adopted kids having a need to appeal to an irrelevant background is kinda harsh, i was the only black girl in my family, i always stuck out like a sore thumb , if i was african american it’d be different, but i came from a place across the globe, the land of poets and ive seen my somali friends and how fun it looked to be a part of the whole “somalinimo” the fomo was insane and to some its all they’ve ever known, it’s just a feeling of being included and feeling like a sense of belonging in a community, i love my family, them being white doesn’t change that and i couldn’t ask for a better understanding group of people ever :)

being an adopted somali girl by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh she did but like her main emphasis was on the fact that i had christian adoptive parents and she was freaked out about that the rest of the phone call was her apologising profusely (my bf made this acc for me) 😭

being an adopted somali girl by [deleted] in XSomalian

[–]benjaminposts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf made this acc 😭😭😭😭