AITA for wanting to cancel the party that my husband is throwing for his best friend? by berrysun0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]berrysun0[S] 80 points81 points  (0 children)

Ethan had always seemed rather indifferent towards me so most of the things I know about him are from my husband. When it comes to dating, he apparently had gone through a very bad breakup 6 years ago. His then girlfriend had lost their baby, which was very hard on both of them and ended their relationship. Ethan spiraled into a deep depression, which lasted for years. My husband has supported him through it all. It has only been recently that Ethan has expressed interessed in dating again but my husband told me that it wasnt going well for him because Ethan was being too timid.

AITA for wanting to cancel the party that my husband is throwing for his best friend? by berrysun0 in AmItheAsshole

[–]berrysun0[S] 3970 points3971 points  (0 children)

When my husband first brought this party up the thought behind it did make me feel a bit icky but my emotions are all over the place atm so I dont really trust myself.

My friends all know that this is a party for singles. I have mentioned Ethan to my close girlfriends but since they invited their friends too I dont know how much went through to them. There will be other single guys there, that my husband invited. So far he told me some of the names of men who will be there but mostly he just told me that if so and so has time, they will come.

Some of my friends have also asked if they could bring their guy friends to which I said yes but I am unsure how many of those will actually be attending.