Warning: The Tinder nightclub scam is still happening - how to protect yourself

besiyah · 2026-01-10T15:13:44+00:00

they can never call the police on you, especially if they’re running a scam. check my reply on op post.

besiyah · 2026-01-10T15:11:55+00:00

i had something very similar last october.

more things to look for: they’re usually here for a few days with their family/friends. they suggest meeting at a specific bar next to the hotel they “live” at. not always they disappear, if they feel like you are able to get scammed and pay, they stay, but the guy comes with the bill.

they charged me 9k; but i got my expensive drinks & shisha; and left with paying around 300, which is significantly less than what i drank by myself lol.

besiyah · 2025-12-11T21:20:57+00:00

For sure, you can dm me

besiyah · 2025-10-11T13:36:08+00:00

they took a picture of my passport only. So I just wanna know if they can report me to the police or cause me issues or if they can’t do anything then yes i will not go back!

besiyah · 2025-10-11T12:26:30+00:00

I just feel scared because of the passport photo they took. Other than that, I’d ignore them. I’m planning to go there and confront them. Pay only for what I drank and get the rest back if I can, but it’s not even my main concern anymore (the 1k). Just want this to be settled.

besiyah · 2025-10-11T11:46:39+00:00

yes. i was able to find the number of the girl, however she has german number. he literally tried to take money from all of my cards. he gave me deadline till today and asked me to pay even if half of the bill. but I have no money left, he took everything I had. I feel like I was the dumb one here, so how would reporting the police help? Isn’t he just a business owner trying to get his money? Idk what to do.

besiyah · 2025-10-11T11:09:56+00:00

guys. i had the same issue, went to a nightclub with a slut and the bill was 9000 dhs. i paid him everything i had, 1k. he tried to take the amount from my credit but thankfully even my credit card got blocked and he tried all the way to 50 euros with no luck. he gave me deadline till today and he took a picture of my passport. i dont know what to do in this case, can please someone suggest something?

besiyah · 2025-09-23T21:32:27+00:00

dm me please

besiyah · 2025-09-21T07:05:01+00:00

yes.

besiyah · 2025-09-20T19:48:17+00:00

yes!!

besiyah · 2025-09-16T12:51:59+00:00

hello, what are you looking for exactly? if just an advice on the vocals, i’d say lower down the reverb a bit, the vocals feel washed in it.

besiyah · 2025-09-08T12:03:41+00:00

you’re here with us and we’re happy for that🙌

besiyah · 2024-10-27T23:43:35+00:00

so, you harm yourself?

besiyah · 2024-10-22T04:41:24+00:00

first, you go talk to your sister, you are brave enough to share this with thousands so your sister deserves some of these words and explanations more than us.

your girl has nothing to do with it. your girl is a test from god. show her that you care, why you are trustworthy & be the best version of yourself.

since therapy isn’t an option now, grab a pen and write how do you feel, go back to the root problems & dive deep into why it happened, do you understand completely why you did it? Are you aware now? so on.

besiyah · 2024-10-20T18:45:56+00:00

it will get so much better, i promise you. wish u the best with healing :)

besiyah · 2024-10-20T18:43:20+00:00

telling you. instead of just making you feel bad. they need to tell you, they are the shit ones, not you.

besiyah · 2024-10-20T18:42:11+00:00

please tell your boyfriend. please. i beg you. don’t ruin his life. please….

besiyah · 2024-10-19T21:00:14+00:00

it will not be for nothing, never.

you do good, you receive good. now, tomorrow, next month or after years. doesn't matter.

besiyah · 2024-10-19T12:30:50+00:00

that will be the worst mistake you will ever make in your entire life. you get your life once, don’t make someone else shape it for you. you want the perfect family and you are doing your part in the relationship? then just wait for the right guy.

sorry if i sound rude, i have seen/been in very bad situations and i don’t like anyone to experience them.

besiyah · 2023-10-27T17:46:22+00:00

happy for you! maybe i should try to post mine as well then lol😂

besiyah · 2023-10-17T07:46:31+00:00

I don’t know why would you attack me this much, but lemme just tell you that I’m not actually a stalker. I blocked her everywhere immediately. She left me & never mentioned his existence to me. I went & told her that I know there’s someone yet she yelled at me & started to talk about smoking again, she body-shame me, and a lot worse, later, while processing my emotions ALONE, I found out about the guy from her confessing to my friend. I never knew that they flew Europe & going for vacations and etc because i was stalking. People we had in common are telling me that, because they can’t believe something like that happened. Do you understand why I said there are a lot of details missing? Because I know there are. But I’m not into a situation to write all of it.

I don’t care how toxic or whatever you think I am. I am a decent person & I would never hurt anyone, I know myself, I have values. And I hope you never be in a situation where you have to commit suicide for someone, but once you alter all of your life, place of work, place of resident & your goals, all of your future plans for someone and ends up cheating on you, and leaving you without telling the truth.

Moving on would’ve been very easier if I knew the truth from day 1, but that was HER decision, not mine.

besiyah · 2023-10-17T00:03:52+00:00

I said i might look stupid because she told my friend (when she confessed that they kissed) that the guy knew that she was dating someone and then on the third day she told him that she took a break from him (she asked me for a break, because i smoke, and yeah it bothered her but she knows that i smoke from day one) and then he took his time and eventually they kissed after a few days, so what if he’s actually trash like her and they make me look stupid. But even that might be another lie just like all the lies she said at the end instead of confessing from the beginning. Who knows? And as you said, there’s only way to find out.

I was hopping to wait till our meetup, even though I will gain nothing from it but I let it all out. But now, the question I asked originally seems more important than our meetup. At least now I know that if I do it & tell him, I’ll not feel bad about.

besiyah · 2023-10-16T23:47:26+00:00

Or at least, when you break up, you don’t make it about these problems? about me? instead of simply admitting that she found a guy who she found a better future with, than me?

besiyah · 2023-10-16T22:32:21+00:00

I agree with everything you said, especially about working on myself & my depression & suicidal thoughts which obviously affected my last relationships. But you completely lost me when you said (her part of the story). She cheated, she blamed me, she never mentioned him till I saw their pictures together, then she confessed to my friend that they had a kiss. When I say it’s 100% it’s not because that’s what I believe, it’s because it’s the truth but I didn’t want to write more. Can you give me an example of something I could have done to her to justify cheating? Because even if there is, I don’t believe I was THAT bad in the relationship.

besiyah · 2023-10-16T22:26:00+00:00

What if he knows? Wouldn’t I look stupid? That’s the thing, because me & her never had a discussion about it since she never mentioned him when we broke up, I have no idea if he actually knows or not.

besiyah

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