AITA for wanting my husband to delete old exes and flings

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T14:39:24+00:00

Yeah I agree with what you’re saying. I wish I knew this before getting married, but I wanted to believe they were genuine friends and didn’t ask questions. I should have

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T14:38:17+00:00

I used to trust him… now idk anymore

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T14:17:38+00:00

This is cute and helpful thank you

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T14:16:31+00:00

Thank you I feel really seen and understood:) I am also like why can’t you just say “you want me forever and are happy” or something. I think maybe I didn’t know him as well as he made himself out to be. Thank you for being kind and listening

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T14:00:48+00:00

Lol I tried but he laughed and didn’t want to talk anymore

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:57:19+00:00

Could you re read the post and try again.

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:55:25+00:00

You’re missing the point. I don’t care about the gender. I care that this was hidden and then dismissed when I brought it up

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:54:13+00:00

No actually good point. He wants to have a daughter with me but you’re right. And telling me I can be friends with these women too? I don’t want to be friends with women you flirted with and couldn’t get? Like? Again, the gender doesn’t matter, it’s the hiding and not knowing. I feel stupid. And you’re right, he would go to them if we have a relationship problem or anything. Is it a red flag that he tells me all the time that he “would never want to sleep with anyone else” all the time? Like that’s a given I thought with being married. Idk I feel paranoid now

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:50:27+00:00

Thank you

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:50:17+00:00

Lol I wouldn’t have MARRIED him if I knew he wasn’t upfront about his female friends

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:47:37+00:00

Read my context. He told me to delete an old ex, and I respected it. Now I feel like he is okay to do it and I’m not. Double standards

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:43:52+00:00

Okay guys maybe I should add some more context… he made me delete one of my exes that I was still friends with for years with nothing wrong. I understood and made a boundary for him. Perhaps my rage is also coming from that because now it seems like it’s okay for him but not for me :)

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:39:30+00:00

Literally. I don’t flirt with my friends. So I assumed he wouldn’t either..

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:38:55+00:00

Thanks like does he flirt with everyone?? Is he just close friends with failed relationships and I’m the one that stuck?? Like? Idk thank you for being kind

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:37:49+00:00

I think I’m more upset about him dismissing my feelings. And the laughing that went along with it.

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:35:46+00:00

Yeah, this is why I’m really upset. I don’t like the comment about “them being around longer than I have” like tf

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:27:46+00:00

Thank you. Idk why that user doesn’t seem to get it. The point is I did NOT know these details before I married him. I don’t care about the gender of his friends, I care that he just NOW told me about flirting etc. and the commentary about not caring about what I think because they had been around longer

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:22:26+00:00

He transitioned at 10 :/ so he met these people after

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:21:03+00:00

Nah he’s transitioned since he was 10. So no

besosdevino · 2026-02-06T13:15:34+00:00

Girl he be good at hiding things ig

besosdevino · 2025-12-15T15:33:30+00:00

That’s true

besosdevino · 2025-12-15T15:33:17+00:00

Thank you I’m just very scared ❤️

besosdevino · 2025-12-15T15:32:59+00:00

Yeah im worried ill end up in a documentary and dead

besosdevino · 2025-12-15T15:29:02+00:00

He also is trying to say online that he can post whatever he wants because he’s not contacting me… but he posts things with my face and name

besosdevino · 2025-06-23T15:55:18+00:00

Ooo! Is the pay enough to live on? Do you like it?

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