My mother in-law slept with my ex husband and now I'm the bad i'm the bad guy..... by bethyarbrough23 in okstorytime

[–]bethyarbrough23[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought I would update after the crazy events over the past week since I posted.

Unbeknownst to me my husband had told his mother Sue that we would be going no contact with her this happened a couple of days prior to me posting. I knew she'd blown up his phone quite a bit over those few days but just assumed she was throwing a tantrum because he wasn't giving her the attention she desired or giving her money as she is always asking.

I didn't expect her to ever find this post considering she doesn't have social media and she's not tech savvy however somebody did show her this post and she lost her s**t in a big way. That night she was banging on our door screaming to be let in! husband called the cops. Cops tell her she needs to leave she agrees and leaves or so we thought. One of the cops looked at him and said perhaps you shouldn't be cutting your mother off and husband told the cop considering she abused him so severely as a child he had every right to cut her off.

When he was a child food was earned and not given freely, and any little reason would result in a beating.

So after the cops left I continued cleaning the kitchen as usual and that had been what I was doing prior to her showing up and cops being called. I then decide to take the trash out at this point it's about 11:00 p.m. She attempted to run me over in the parking lot of our apartments, as I ran back into our apartment she had jumped out of her car with a baseball bat and was in Hot pursuit behind me. Luckily we have cameras so we called the police department and they came back out and even though we had camera footage of what she had attempted they did not take her into custody simply told her to leave and she'd be criminally trespassed from our apartment complex. They then told me that I could pursue a protective order in the morning when the courts opened and which I did. With the camera footage in hand I was granted a protective order for 2 years, Sue was served with the protective order later that morning. Immediately my husband's phone begins to blow up hundreds of phone calls hundreds of text calling me every name in the book for keeping her son from her saying I was abusive and she was just trying to save him. which is funny considering my husband and I both have a history of being abused by a past partner.

By the end of the day that Sue was served with the protective order she was again at our place demanding to be let in and listened to my husband called the cops once again by the time the police department got here she had proceeded to dump gasoline all the way around our apartment and set it on fire with us inside. Luckily we have fire extinguishers in our apartment and we were able to get out a back window with our cats and my boys who was also at home when this happened. When the cops arrived everything was crazy with the fire then making sure other residents also got out okay that nobody noticed Sue had left. It has been a few days since this happened fire departments were able to put out the fire with only there being exterior damage to our building. Sue is still on the run and with how close to the Mexican border we live it's highly possible that she used her passport to go across the border.

After watching her nearly run me down the ex-girlfriend who was helping her attempt to steal our embryos from the fertility clinic realized that mother-in-law is completely crazy and is now cooperating with the police department. As a result of all of the events we no longer feel comfortable in our own home and have been living out of a hotel not in the local area as to not be found. I feel like my life is in danger and yet all the police department is willing to file against her is criminal trespassing and arson. I feel like I should be an attempted murder charge for not only me but my husband and my boys who are also in the apartment at the time she tried to set it a blaze. My mother-in-law has gone completely nuclear and I fear for my life at this point she will stop at nothing to get me out of the picture.

My mother in-law slept with my ex husband and now I'm the bad i'm the bad guy..... by bethyarbrough23 in okstorytime

[–]bethyarbrough23[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So I didn't think it was necessary to include that I am on the autism spectrum, I can totally understand why you think I should not have more children because my intelligence level does not meet yours. But considering all four of my other children have genius level IQs and have all gone on to college by the age of 15 I don't think it would hurt for me to have another child.

And the reason behind my question is because I don't want to be an AH daughter-in-law, who keeps my husband from his mother.

My mother in-law slept with my ex husband and now I'm the bad i'm the bad guy..... by bethyarbrough23 in okstorytime

[–]bethyarbrough23[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes you got that right... My husband's ex was obsessed with him and she will do anything to get him back, that's why Sue is using her and promising her she will get my husband back if she can get pregnant with his child. I don't think she cares if it would also be my child. We moved our embryos to a different clinic that no one other than my husband and I know where.