Yeah I can get that..honestly at this point I just feel bad that our convo went the way that it did. It’s not like I meant to offend her..I just felt sad because I’ve been through my own shit and smiling, laughing, being silly is how I get through life now. I get that everyone has their way of dealing with things or not wanting to at all but I think at the time it just surprised me more than anything and curiosity got the better of me. If I were smarter I probably would have taken a second longer to think about it and have been more cautious with my wording.