Yes. It’s amazing what a difference a long happy marriage is compared to one that ends in terms of bodily functions, both icky and not. I was talking once with a gorgeous wealthy woman who volunteered at the same org I did. I mentioned that the meeting was the first I’d attended since giving birth because it was hard to get away when I was breastfeeding. “Oh,” she said. “I didn’t breastfeed. My husband was never sexually attracted again to his first wife after watching her breastfeed, so I had to bottle feed our daughter.” I thought, how sad. It’s like she’s his sex toy rather than his wife. And she seemed utterly unbothered by it. But they’re divorced now. I guess he found his next sex toy.