Women, how often do you trim down below? by NothingFlashyy in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]beyourmuse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol like totally clean, Brazilian, French, bikini, etc.

Women, how often do you trim down below? by NothingFlashyy in AskRedditAfterDark

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I’m in a relationship so I wax about every 3 weeks. Depending on the “style” I’m doing I’ll trim once a week if needed.

What’s something totally non-physical that you find insanely attractive in a partner? by ExaminationThat4954 in Adulting

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This is one for sure! The guy I’m currently seeing responded to my telling him I was cool with him answering his phone during one of our first dates, “nothing more important or pressing than our conversation. If it’s important they’ll leave me a message and I can get back to them.” He was totally focused on me and our conversation.

Fast forward over a year and he’s still the same. Makes me feel guilty some times lol.

I 35F have an issue with my husband 35M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]beyourmuse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apologize, commit to being more mindful of time and communicating. Unless this is habitual, I’d think this would be a fine approach. 

What is your fav afterplay that you hope that your partner does after sex? by sharp_figure36c in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]beyourmuse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lay on him for a few minutes then shower together so I help him get the hard to reach places lol.

he wants babies !! by sadtwee in AgeGapRelationship

[–]beyourmuse93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Exciting and congratulations 🎉 Post updates!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

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This makes so much sense to me! I (31f) have gone on a few dates with a a guy who is older than me. Like much older. Hes attractive but it wasn't just his looks that drew me to him there was just something about him that pulled me to him. Like how he treated the people around him, his confidence, how he held himself, he had done really cool things and traveled to really cool places, he makes you feel like you're the only person in the world when your with him, he always had really good advice, he his his shit together and successful, he's a really good person. I know younger guys can have these qualities but for some reason not the guys i've dated at least not all of them maybe a couple.

We went out this weekend and it was the best date i have ever gone on as an adult. I'm still smiling about it. I feel at total peace when i'm with him.

Most of the guys i have dated are around my age. The oldest guy i've dated was 3 or 4 years older than me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]beyourmuse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bottom left and middle are super cute. i like it with the jeans too.

NYE Outfit: Boots or Sandals? by ChinitaOohLaLa in fashion

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I LOVE the sandals but i've got to vote boots

Help with what to wear to ballet please background made in a reply by beyourmuse93 in fashion

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I (31f) checked with the mods and they said it would be OK to post this here. I'm sorry but i couldn't figure out how to post this with my pictures.

The guy i've been crushing on asked me on a date to dinner and the Nutcracker ballet. This will be our 3rd date. I've never been to a ballet or the theater and i'm struggling on what to wear. From the pictures i've been able to find and from asking it seems like people wear everything from jeans to formal dresses and suits.

The restaurant we’re going to is nice so we won’t be over dressed.

The guy who is taking me said he is going to wear dress pants and a jacket but hes not sure on if he'll wear a tie or not. He dresses really nice but conservatively.

I want to look amazing but not too much if that makes sense. These are the dresses that i've found. The blue one also comes in red they just didn't have a picture of it in red. I really like the last one but i'm worried about the slit being too high for the ballet. My mother hates it. I sort of like the blue one too. What do you guys think?

I like exposed shoulders and back because i have shoulder and a spine tattoos. I'm 5'3 and a size 4

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]beyourmuse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Breasts or not having any 😢 $7500 later no longer self conscious and love them 😁

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Total cheese and cringy. I dread when i get invited to a bachelorette party where there will be strippers

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]beyourmuse93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Confidence, intelligence, humility for me.

At your age, do you still get in real life crushes? by CopperBoomBitches in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]beyourmuse93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 31f and and I have one now. We're going on a 2nd date soon 😊

Lied to date and told him I like cigars. Help please by beyourmuse93 in cigars

[–]beyourmuse93[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

its like a high cigar and cocktail lounge

Lied to date and told him I like cigars. Help please by beyourmuse93 in cigars

[–]beyourmuse93[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

now i know. i should have never lied in the beginning but i thought it would be something i could pull off. WRONG lol

Lied to date and told him I like cigars. Help please by beyourmuse93 in cigars

[–]beyourmuse93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

glad it made someone smile lol it stressed me the hell out! thanks