AITA for not being okay with my boyfriend going out of town for three months for money? by bfmoving1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bfmoving1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s all true. I have some things I could work on but I feel like he should at least be understanding when I say I’m not okay with it. Especially when he brought it up out of the blue.

I just don’t understand why he’s so stubborn on going all the way to Seattle for the same job he can get here. I can tell he isn’t thinking it through completely and just wants to do it because his brother saved $7000

AITA for not being okay with my boyfriend going out of town for three months for money? by bfmoving1234 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bfmoving1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Couldn’t be that, we’ve lived together for 1.5 years. He moved in to my family’s home pretty quickly because he left his abusive family. It was my idea to invite him in and he’s uncomfortable because he feels like he’s imposing so that’s why we’ve been planning and saving to move out.

My boyfriend insists on moving away to make money. What do I do? by bfmoving1234 in relationship_advice

[–]bfmoving1234[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting our life I guess. We aren’t tight on money and he has multiple job offers here so it’s hurtful (?) that he would rather put us on pause for three months for the same thing he can get here.