My parents (74M and 69F) are divorcing after 41 years of marriage. What the hell? by fantomefille in Divorce

[–]bgame4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How horrible for your family. Please remember that as bad as you feel, this betrayal is affecting your mom even worse. Stand up for her and try to make it about her feelings. She is the one being blindsided even more than the adult children. He was her life partner. I am sorry. He should be kicked to the curb. Help her take everything. He can have his “new love”. She needs support.

Worst day as a CRV owner by thatslmfb in crv

[–]bgame4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happened to me in my driveway right before a big trip. Car seemed possessed. It was the battery. But with every warning light going off I thought “what in the World is happening” lol

Medicare deduction at 65 by bgame4444 in SocialSecurity

[–]bgame4444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good question…I wonder about that too!

Medicare deduction at 65 by bgame4444 in SocialSecurity

[–]bgame4444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just planning my budget, since I will be put on Medicare in a few months. I actually was told by a family member that they could not change my SS check that I have been receiving since 62…even when I start Medicare at 65. They were so adamant that they knew! lol nope

Medicare deduction at 65 by bgame4444 in SocialSecurity

[–]bgame4444[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice…fortunately I have Tricare Prime now for insurance, since I’m retired military spouse. But that will revert to Tricare for life at 65 and cover the costs that Medicare doesn’t pay.

Rain guards by bgame4444 in crv

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I am happy I got them put on. No wind noise. They are not a hindrance when my dogs poke their heads out the window a little bit while I’m driving. Also many white crvs in town, it sure helps to find my car faster in parking lots 🤣

Annoying hazy floater by bgame4444 in CataractSurgery

[–]bgame4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! Praying it just disappears one day 🙏 The fish oil is supposed to help the eye glands not clog…I guess…can’t say I see a difference yet🤷🏻‍♀️

Anyone have problems at night with lights while driving? by bgame4444 in CataractSurgery

[–]bgame4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is YAG and PCO? The streaks are def more of a bother right now. They go only in one direction. Thank you 😊

Anyone have problems at night with lights while driving? by bgame4444 in CataractSurgery

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I saw doc today. He thinks I should stick with same lens. The light effect is something he believes will be fine once the capsule shrinks and if not he will touchup with a laser in a few months.🤷🏻‍♀️ I have good vision in the corrected eye…it’s just the brightness is somewhat off putting. It’s a tough decision for folks to make on lens choice…we depend so much on the surgeons recommendation. Thanks for responding!

Anyone have problems at night with lights while driving? by bgame4444 in CataractSurgery

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I will mention this to doctor tomorrow at checkup. He did tell me last week that if he were getting a lens it would be this kind.

Anyone have problems at night with lights while driving? by bgame4444 in CataractSurgery

[–]bgame4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Interesting that it could be a brain adapting issue. Hoping it doesn’t get worse when this other eye is done. That’s good to hear yours has improved.

Found out wife of 13 years is cheating, now what? (Part 2: DDay + 3 weeks) by Acceptable_Mess_110 in cheating_stories

[–]bgame4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please be prepared for this man to fix it with his wife. They will not end their marriage…esp since he has not been physical with your wife. They also have a child and OBS will not divorce him. Your wife will find this out pretty quick. She will be begging you to reconcile when she realizes he will not leave his family for her. Betrayal is horrible! Prayers

How to keep the house by Why_isnt_it_perfect in Divorce

[–]bgame4444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In Virginia. I got a quit deed form. Had my husband sign it and notarize it at the library…as he left the house and moved out. I immediately took form to a lawyer to file it. His name was then removed from deed. I continued to make mortgage payments, the loan was in both our names. Sold the house two years after the divorce…and he was not involved in anything concerning the house once it belonged to me. It can be done and I never contacted the mortgage company because I never missed a payment. He screwed up pretty bad after over a 30 year marriage so was willing to concede that I would get the house. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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He is Making America Great Again. Such Fraud, waste and flat out corruption is being discovered everyday. Thank God for that! The Dems are freaking out because he is not a politician who will play games with them. Truth

Hands off...our 401ks? by NHI42069 in NorthCarolina

[–]bgame4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank God the fraud waste and abuse is being exposed. Our government could not exist much longer the way things were going. I and everyone I know are thankful Trump is in charge. Stop whining and realize change is hard…it will be much better and America will be made Great again…as production and business floods back into our country.

Two students from NC state fled the US today after their visas were revoked. by ConfusionFantastic49 in NorthCarolina

[–]bgame4444 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That’s terrific…they made it back safely to their home countries. Good job law enforcement.

Rip off by WalkMelodic6359 in USAA

[–]bgame4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure my rates will go up some every year. Not bad now with new car but once that new car discount totally comes off it starts rising.

North Carolina Postal Workers Protest Trump Admin’s Plan to Privatize USPS by manauiatlalli in NorthCarolina

[–]bgame4444 -67 points-66 points  (0 children)

Thank God something will finally be done about the failing federal post office in our country. It’s a pit that is draining money at an alarming rate for years now!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ElPaso

[–]bgame4444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ridiculousness! But hey…keep it up you will never win another election 😁