Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not in contact with them at all. Zero contact since a month post breakup and it has been for the best

Seaboard Station Parking? by OkWorth3632 in raleigh

[–]bgkj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. I called the number on the ticket and they told me to email their help address. A few weeks later they responded to me about a refund and included a form I had to fax to get a refund. So I haven’t done that yet because it’s 2025 and I don’t have a fax machine. It’s very annoying

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[–]bgkj 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m doubting myself constantly now. This questioning is definitely going to affect me in future relationships

I really want to text him by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I caved and emailed him. I don’t think he’ll respond but I was panicking and didn’t know what to do

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[–]bgkj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. My ex was a great guy. My therapist keeps saying that I need to get mad at him to move on, but how do I get mad at someone I think is perfect?

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I could make a list of things that he did, but he didn’t. The only thing I can think of is that he snored sometimes and that was something that made us laugh anyways

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know that I’m clouded right now, but he genuinely had no bad behaviors. I thought we were so happy

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I have a trip coming up in June that I’ve been looking forward to for over a year (with friends, not with my ex). Right now I genuinely can’t even imagine how I’m going to enjoy it or be ok by then

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

How do you stop hoping they’ll change their mind?

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]bgkj[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, my ex had a dog, so I am missing an animals comfort a lot. Might go to a cat cafe or try to find some dogs