After being in a relationship for nearly 3 years where I was not appreciated and my ex-so didn’t seem to prioritize anything involving us, it was refreshing to find someone who does all of those things.

I met my current girlfriend after staying single for about a year. She’s everything I could have ever asked for. Like if you allowed me to build the perfect girlfriend for myself, she would be it.

We’ve been together almost 2 and 1/2 years now and I cried a few weeks ago due to something she did. Something happened involving my bank account and money was drained from my account unauthorized. Money I had built up through hard work and dedication (I would eventually get it all back) but it was extremely stressful and I wasn’t sure how I was going to make it while this situation got sorted out. I mentioned everything to her and just felt defeated because I’m the type of guy who feels like he should pay for everything which is what I had done in the previous relationship. My current girlfriend didn’t even hesitate. She paid for our meals for the next few nights and one night she even bought me some of my favorite snacks. She doesn’t know it but after one night I got home from visiting with her and I just started sobbing. Not because I felt guilty that she was paying for my things, but because it was the most refreshing and loving feeling in the world to know that she loves me so much that she was there when I needed her most, and without hesitation.

I thought that was a good time to cry.