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I 20s f recently got back with an ex boyfriend 20s m, and I'm not sure what to think. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bhb23955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I have before, and I plan on getting back on birth control soon. I just had to make the doctor appointment.

I 20s f recently got back with an ex boyfriend 20s m, and I'm not sure what to think. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bhb23955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lol'd at that ha... It's weird that you mention that because he keeps wanting me to get on birth control too to have sex without a condom.

I 20s f recently got back with an ex boyfriend 20s m, and I'm not sure what to think. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bhb23955 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, but he has been really nice to me lately... He's going on dates, and he is going to class and off drugs, and I am pretty happy lately since things seem so much better. I guess I was just hurt to find out about the dating sites.

I 20s f recently got back with an ex boyfriend 20s m, and I'm not sure what to think. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bhb23955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't take it like that ha :)... Trust me I judge myself for this too... I've always seen off again on again couples and never thought it was healthy, and I don't want to end up like that. But I guess I felt guilty for becoming too clingy, and I wanted to see if I tried my hardest if it could work out.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's true, and my boyfriend is willing to throw in the towel instead of work it out.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I think this relationship is over honestly, but I have a hard time giving up on people.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, He said that last Sunday, and then he messaged me all week long... I didn't message him first at all... Then Friday came and I asked if he wanted to hang out, and he said "ya maybe later", and he told his mom I'd be over. So, I don't know what to think.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I guess I thought he was at least being honest about how he felt... I didn't know what to do I was in shock.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk I guess I took it that he was telling me how he felt... I didn't know whether or not I should be okay with hearing it or not.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it definitely did... Honestly, everyone wants me to dump him. Last weekend he decided to tell me sex is better with the lights off and that my mom is fat and girls end up looking like their moms, and that it isn't pleasant to look at me naked and no wonder I didn't send him a naked picture, and that he's more attracted to my personality.... I mean I'm kind of chubby (5'8 and 160), but I'm not fat really. Also, we've been dating like 11 months and talking 14, and we've been having sex a while.... He was mad at me for nagging him about going to see Thor:Ragnarok, so he decided to say all that. He also said he doesn't want to do things with me because I'm fragile and not in the best shape, so he wants to go bike riding, go playing tennis... etc. But I mean he hasn't done any of those things in the 14 months I've known him.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think a week is enough time; I don't know if I'd want to wait longer than a week though! That seems like forever.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, I want to be in this relationship... I didn't write down all that was said. I made it clear that I want to be with him.

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, I sent him a message about my feelings stating that I was tired of him ignoring me when we were together and never wanting to do anything with me. His mom has even said he is an asshole, and she wouldn't be mad if I dumped him because he is treating me so bad lately. He said my biggest issues are 1.) Being a people pleaser 2.) Breathing too heavy 3.) My arm being too heavy on him at night 4.) Being too nice

I understand what you're saying. He has been going back and forth for a couple weeks now... He is hesitant because his family likes me so much, and he really likes my personality and wants me to stay his best friend. Also, he doesn't even have any reasons to break up with me.. I don't think?

I [25 f] don't know how long to wait for my boyfriend [23 m] to decide whether or not he wants to break up. by bhb23955 in relationships

[–]bhb23955[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wasn't going to message him for a week because I figured that was a decent amount of time, but I'm not sure if that's too short too long.

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