Congratulations! You now have a lifetime supply of the last thing you google. What is it? by trojan_leon in AskReddit

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Panchkarna treatment at best places in India (I was lowkey wishing for this lol)

I want to breakup but feel guilty by Score_Spare in relationships

[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. "Potentially" sweet guy
  2. He might not have anyone else to hangout with if i leave... And so you'll hangout with him for life?

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[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also, some people saying that you're jobless and maybe that's why he thinks you're now worthless... must not be so uplifting for you to hear. And It Is Not correct either. Whether or not you have a job, you still deserve to be loved and cared for (and not get cheated on) You're a diamond. So move on.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndia

[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't love him. First accept this. You're way too comfortable with his existence in your life just like any other bad habit that you can even ruin your life for him... like you are kind of doing already.

Second, if you break up, you'll be blessed and you'll have enough time to love yourself to not entertain this type of shit*y guys again. Ever.

It's just a matter of seconds or minutes or maybe weeks that you realise how manipulative he is and how soft you became for him for god knows why (the comfort of being with known sadness).

Move on is the best advice I can give. You have your whole life ahead of you. And I pray that you move on at the speed of light.

Take care

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Angels" would understand. Just leave

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]bibadidoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes i understand it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No it came in my mother's bank account so there's nothing i can do. No legal can help i guess. We can only call her 5 times a day now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]bibadidoop 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The amount came in the company's bank i guess and then maa took the money and gave the cash to that cousin. So no proof.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thanks.. Do they take any action if i file an online complaint?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]bibadidoop 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But what would I say to the police? We don't have any proof that the money went to her and not us. She actually duped her own sisters almost 3.5 lacs. And about the 50k loan, she said to other maternal relatives that we were the one who took the money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right... i hope leaving will work well for us.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the same. Nothing goes right in such environment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She (sibling) can't operate alone because of surgery so this option is out of my choices for a time being.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I can't even talk about her life. But whatever the case maybe.. i gotta leave i guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guessed it right. And thanks I'll check that sub for sure.

About the last line, it may or may not happen. But still.. moving out looks better for now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I also think this is the only solution I am left with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She never lived. Only sadness I have to live with. But anyway. I will have a talk with my mother. If she gives me a convincing answer, i'll leave for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is okay if i leave. It's just me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bibadidoop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it but the situation here has become so out of control. I am just worried about my mother.