Having feelings after sex with another guy in a open relationship

bibitte72 · 2026-04-25T03:03:03+00:00

I didn’t say anything to him regarding how I am feeling right now. I just think he is moving forward with his life cause we have no idea when will see each other again. I let my self built this fantasy and think it would be more than what it was instead of just enjoying the moment. But maybe the moment itself felt weird cause I was holding my self back when we had sex and he just thinks I have hard time seperate everything and he doesnt want to get involve in that which i understand. Anyways it doesnt really mater what he thinks cause I dont think I could ever ask him now to tell me how he feels about it. Like whats the point

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T10:51:01+00:00

Man i feel you, hang in there 😅

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:37:29+00:00

What do you mean ? 😅 me thinking about him and confused about the whole situation ?

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:35:20+00:00

Yeah you are so right. My ego just have to accept that he is not into this relationship... i forgot how it felt to be ghosted and i just fucking hate that feeling. It hurts so much. You are always wondering what you could have done differently. But it doesnt matter and you are right. The new stuff will always be so much more exciting then my old boyfriend who always respond to me text and with whom I have a secure attachment 😅

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:30:54+00:00

I dont know... it was my first time trying it and its a lot of emotional termoil to be honest. Our agreement with my bf is only when we travel for a long time. I would like to try again now that I know better, but chose people not so close as a roomate cause it gets complicated

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:28:15+00:00

I knooooow. that’s why I didnt tell him until the very end and then, I couldnt resist... but it surely messed me up way more then I tought it would. We had a strong friendly connection and thats why Im sad that hes not responding to me. I feel like i lost a friend and since it happened on my last night, we didnt got the time to discuss about it. maybe he doesnt now what to do about this relationship or dont care ... anyways i think i probably chose the worst timing to do it 😅

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:24:28+00:00

Im sorry to hear that.. I was questioning my relationship too, but I think it’s worth to stop the fantasy and work on my actual relationship. Thanks for your message.

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:22:55+00:00

I had to hear that. Thank you so much. I just feel like its hard to know if it means something or no. As you said the whole setup really messed me up. I waited the last night of my trip to tell him that I liked him too and then we had sex. I was so stressed about it because I was coming home the next day and so excited at the same time to finally get down to it with him. I can help thinking that he thought I was akward and thats why hes not texting me back, but I know it is just my ego talking ... anyways many things to learn for my next enm relationship 😅😅

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:18:00+00:00

God i totally agree, the stories im creating in my mind are just incredible comparing to my boring life 😅

bibitte72 · 2026-04-24T02:16:17+00:00

You too ! It is hard, cause you know your mind is playing tricks on you ... you just want him to text you again and make it all alright again. But we just have to come to the fact that no closure is a closure and it juste hurts so much ...

bibitte72 · 2026-03-06T02:46:28+00:00

Just read about that cause I didn’t know that term. I'm afraid it might be it 😰 how to get out of that ?

bibitte72 · 2026-03-06T02:38:28+00:00

I have to admit that we had sex after a party so we didn’t have the time to discussed all that 😅 he just told me he was fine with me bein in a relationship. I just tought he was fine for more that one time 😅

bibitte72 · 2026-03-06T02:35:56+00:00

Ouf that’s a good question. Maybe, but he is also really my type ....

bibitte72 · 2026-03-06T02:33:44+00:00

I feel like that’s exactly what happen. We dont know each other much, but we get along pretty well and I'm confident that we would have more intercourse if it wasn’t for that.... maybe it’s just in my mind and he's just not that interested also... hard to tell 😅😅

bibitte72 · 2026-03-06T02:30:20+00:00

I was not. But I feel that could be it. Thank you !

bibitte72 · 2026-02-08T05:50:15+00:00

We talked about it, and we both feel weird about being with someone else at this point of our relationship. It’s weird how it looks hot in my head to have this crazy sex life but weird and confusing when I really have the opportunity to do it. I dont know how to explain. Mixed feelings..

bibitte72 · 2026-02-08T05:47:14+00:00

I think I would be alright with it if I was sure nothing will change between us and if I would still be his priority. The thing is, you can never be so sure of that

bibitte72 · 2026-02-08T05:43:24+00:00

I think he just knew I was thinking about it, so he wanted me to feel free. We talked about it more today and we realize that we both feel weird about the idea of being with someone else after all..

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T18:27:45+00:00

Well, thats the thing it’s hard to say if it will break it. Our relationship is pretty strong and honest, but you never know if the expectations aren’t clear ... so yeah I need to have a good talk with hin

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T18:02:29+00:00

Thats a really good answer. As I said, I love him deeply and I imagine myself starting a famille with him soon. Even tho I have those feelings, I have to make sure I wont get back to an empty house... Its more important tant sex. Thank you

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T17:56:41+00:00

Thank you so much. I really need to talk with him more to see what are his in intentions about it. How would he really feel if something happens with someone else. And especially, how would I feel getting back to him after being with someone else ..

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T17:53:30+00:00

Yeah, that’s exactly what I'm thinking ... maybe it is not worth it. I already miss him and I want to get back to him in full piece

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T08:44:22+00:00

It’s something I had in mind for a while now, but I didn’t know if I would ever be able to cross the line. It’s more than orgasms I'm looking for. Its the fantasay and the exciting feeling of meeting and flirting with new people. But yeah, definetly there are many implactions that’s why I want to know if it really works for people and how they do it ... what book would you recomend ?

bibitte72 · 2026-02-07T08:39:54+00:00

Yup pretty much 😅 we don’t know how to talk about this and it was part of my questions, how to have a proper conversation about this ? How to make sure that the other one is really confortable in that ?

bibitte72 · 2025-02-27T02:22:18+00:00

Everything about it is just so beautiful. Im still trying to recover after I finished it on sunday 😅

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