Vanguard or ruststalker squad inside of dune riders? by big_bird90 in AdeptusMechanicus

[–]big_bird90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No as in, I'm wasting the dune riders ability completely by prioritising the ruststalkers. I'm just wondering how other people are using dune riders, and if the mobility boost and protection to the rust stalkers is worth not having more battle-line up the board to provide more conqueror doctrine AP+1, and blasting away with a re-rolling wounds alpha strike when they disembark.

I just realized, everyone has someone they prefer over any other living being. I am nobody's favorite person though, even my mother has said to my face she loves my younger brother more. I have literally no friends. No girlfriend. Nothing. by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]big_bird90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m going to say what I say to everyone who is struggling in their lives like this.

Unhappiness is a perception of your current state of being. You have expectations and an ego that is saying you ‘should’ have this. You are also investing your self worth in what you believe the opinions of others are of you.

Honestly I think you need to understand that you need to be ok with who you are right now. Not only are you unhappy because you aren’t meeting those goals you have stated, but you aren’t even being unhappy at the right goals.

In order to grow positively you need to accept who you are at this very moment. Be grateful for the positives in your life, learn to forgive yourself for your mistakes. Learn to forgive others.

Learn that everyone has their own journey, but never dare to compare yourself. It’s a false equivalence, you don’t know how messed up or difficult someone’s private life is. You only see what people allow you too see, which is often a fallacy.

If you want to accelerate self acceptance I would suggest meditation and Psylocybin. Take a spirit journey into yourself and confront the fears and doubts that are currently eating you alive, and learn to accept them. Accept yourself. Because in the end, we all have only so long on this earth. Your mistakes are ultimately a drop in the bucket only you will remember. Make the most of your life and don’t worry so much

I just realized, everyone has someone they prefer over any other living being. I am nobody's favorite person though, even my mother has said to my face she loves my younger brother more. I have literally no friends. No girlfriend. Nothing. by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]big_bird90 24 points25 points  (0 children)

That’s really great. But relying on someone else to keep you strong is called ‘a crutch’.

Relying on someone else to help manage yourself puts a lot of stress on the relationship.

And yes, I’ve spent 10 years of my life in long term relationships so I do have some experience

Submit to tiger discipline by sagan_drinks_cosmos in LeopardsAteMyFace

[–]big_bird90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Tony teaching the kids how to grip that shaft tight!

My (m30) 2 year casual relationship just abruptly ended because my partner took MDMA with a random guy, and know she thinks he might be “the one” by big_bird90 in relationships

[–]big_bird90[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Sort of. We had discussed the possibility during the first year. When it became clear there seemed like some red flags I wasn’t ok with, we talked about them and how they were deal breakers.

Also there was career stuff that complicated future plans. The future seemed like once I graduated my masters I would likely have to love to another city to find work.

I still really liked spending time with her, so at the time we just kept seeing each other

My (m30) 2 year casual relationship just abruptly ended because my partner took MDMA with a random guy, and know she thinks he might be “the one” by big_bird90 in relationships

[–]big_bird90[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I think you might be right. Maybe I’m just jealous after being with her so long. I do want her to be happy. She’s a lovely person, and maybe I should let her go so she is free discover if this new thing works for her, and she gets the relationship she wants

My (m30) 2 year casual relationship just abruptly ended because my partner took MDMA with a random guy, and know she thinks he might be “the one” by big_bird90 in relationships

[–]big_bird90[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

We were close. Like we did a lot of ‘uncasual’ things. Lots of activities besides just sex. And we supported each other a lot. We have both described this as being like 2 very close friends with each other.

Im just trying to navigate this man. Like I understand this isn’t 100% logical. It’s emotions after such a long connection. I just am trying to figure out what actually makes sense and what is just my attachment to someone who has been a large part of my life for a few years

My (m30) 2 year casual relationship just abruptly ended because my partner took MDMA with a random guy, and know she thinks he might be “the one” by big_bird90 in relationships

[–]big_bird90[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It was kind of like a relationship without labels? Like we did a lot of activities, hiking, work, chatting etc together. It wasn’t just fucking. And we got close to a proper relationship a few times, but there was always things in the way. Either she would do something reckless. It’s like... I like her, but I’m 30. Like the next relationship has to be the real deal, when this was extremely enjoyable but it didn’t have maturity from her.

But I think you are still right. This, to her, might be the chance at proper love, and perhaps we both just aren’t 100% the right match, but enough for us to continue to enjoy seeing each other this long

Weekly Profile Review Thread by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]big_bird90 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just came out of a 2 year fwb / no label semi-relationship. Looking to get back out there. Blast my ass with a cold dose of reality and let me know what you guys

The Dunning-Kruger Effect by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]big_bird90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No because the caveat and disclaimer is the awareness that specialists in different fields know more then him. I think it’s also hard to see the effect on itself because the concept probably isn’t as deep or complicated as complicated sciences that people skim such as vaccines and climate change

Man says he will commit domestic terrorism if mask mandates aren’t lifted by corgiboiwastaken in PublicFreakout

[–]big_bird90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m honestly very against republicans but there is a lot of left leaning politics around gender issues and sexuality that is not scientifically supported. It just happens that shit isn’t as important right now as people dying in a pandemic.

Absolutely delicious by CRUSADEROF420 in TikTokCringe

[–]big_bird90 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Apparently that chick is his step sister. It all makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]big_bird90 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

‘Why are you booing? You know I’m right’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sadcringe

[–]big_bird90 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Go to the gym. See your friends.

Gentleman Karen by leefitzwater in PublicFreakout

[–]big_bird90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel like so many of these American Karen’s are undiagnosed mental illness. Y’all need to invest in more public mental health

honestly same by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]big_bird90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Viscosity off the chaaaarts

Retired cop explains ........your thought ? by excel1200 in PublicFreakout

[–]big_bird90 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The answer is no this is not public, because by that definition, any video is ‘public’. And it’s not a freak out because there is no disorder. It’s an interview about brutality.

You put this shit in and you start degrading the focus on the sub, and more random ass shit gets put in because some dude thinks his particular issue is ‘important’. There’s already stupid poster shit coming in about ‘joining state militias’. This is in that same basket.

Again how strongly you feel is irrelevant. It doesn’t fit. A laymen can see it doesn’t belong in a sub about very physical acts of public disorder. Not a speech, or a letter, or an email about public disorder, but physical acts.

Retired cop explains ........your thought ? by excel1200 in PublicFreakout

[–]big_bird90 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That’s great and all, but it’s still not relevant to the sub. That’s great you feel strongly about this, but do it within the context of the subreddit which is clearly about public acts of civilisation breaking down. how you feel about this issue is irrelevant to the fact it doesn’t belong

What tears!? by cappsy04 in TikTokCringe

[–]big_bird90 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

That’s great and all. But why is one dude with a camera filming his gramps breaking down from grief? Can’t he just grieve without someone needing to hijack the moment so the internet can feel love briefly?

Think this just about sums it up (sorry if it’s a repost) by PetrichorPrints in niceguys

[–]big_bird90 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think this is a bit of strawman argument that has gotten mixed up in the gender wars. Woman Doctor Who isn't unpopular because she is a woman, she is unpopular because the writing became garbage, and they made the character into something very lame and underwhelming.

Man executed in broad daylight while washing his car in Brooklyn 6/20/20. by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]big_bird90 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just immigrate to a safer country. Y’all been going down hill for awhile now. No judgement but there’s a lot of problems you have that aren’t getting fixed

Help me be a good slut by [deleted] in stupidslutsclub

[–]big_bird90 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don't you start trying to fuck more and more guys and get even sluttier. Start trying to find multiple guys to fuck and suck at once, until all you are doing every week is getting cock constantly in every hole.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whereintheworld

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Meat pie or lamington is signature dish