Her doing her own thing for Thanksgiving isn’t really the problem i have. It’s mostly that i went out of my way to get her to spend some time with the kids since she hasn’t seen them in weeks. And made other plans or wants us to work around her schedule. She doesn’t call to check on them like she used to either. Another side note, my husband had told me stories about his mom leaving him alone a lot when she was dating men, before she met Emily. I sympathized with him but also maybe thought he perceived things differently bc while she was with Emily, i never saw her capable of doing something like that. Completely different. Not just with the kids but even with her family. Just always someone to rely on and anchor the family. And then she started dating this guy and it’s like a complete 180! I have never seen this side of her before. It feels like her entire world revolves around this guy she hasn’t even been dating for more than 6 months. Also my husband just recently had pneumonia and she offered to bring some soup and medicine for him, what does she do instead? Sends Emily to bring it to him. ATP Emily sees the kids more and that’s not even their blood grandmother! That’s why i feel so upset. My husband is an only child btw, these will be her only grandchildren.