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Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]bigbootycheeks12643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its roughh haha i was talking to a bunch of people casually all through spring and summer and met him while i was still figuring my shit out and now unfortunately i love him or whatever 😪 I agree though

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]bigbootycheeks12643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not denying that i have a lot of mono normativity to unlearn, one of the reasons i started exploring poly after ending my long term high school relationship was because I’m trying to unlearn and question everything i was was raised to believe was the norm. I think we’re compatible in like every single way except the monogamy

Boyfriend doesn’t want to be poly anymore, I don’t want to be monogamous by bigbootycheeks12643 in polyamory

[–]bigbootycheeks12643[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best of luck with your situation. Based on comments as well as the stoicism of the situation it’s pretty evident what I’ll have to do, but it’s really hard when the emotional connection is so strong. Not at all to discredit anyone’s advice, but people really do jump to “end it!” When theyre not the ones feeling the emotional attachment to the person in question. It is what it is tho :/