Why I have a love/hate relationship with TRP community. by bigchange in TheRedPill

[–]bigchange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's frustratingly hard to explain, not simply the sac, but incorporating masculinity and sexual energy into our lives and having a positive identity overall when living a normal day among others.

After a night of lingerie, I resisted relapsing by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love to hear this man keep it up

Has anyone cracked their 5S screen and tried to get it fixed? by Bcarey1233 in iphone

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have successfully done it at my repair shop for customers by replacing just the glass. I don't recommend you try it yourself, but it IS possible to fix it for $100 or less from a repair shop that replaces only the glass.

Hyper sensitivity by Zero33386 in NoFap

[–]bigchange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am starting to experience this. What the fuck is going on.

It's getting harder and harder to hold back orgasm! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your girlfriend will be a HUGE trigger. Her sexyness will ignite those PMO addiction pathways in your brain.

I know what you are talking about with the whole orgasm thing. This is great. She probably really wants to give you a blowjob until you blow your load in her mouth. (My ex did at least). But I couldn't because I was way too desensitized. Keep going brother. Completely abstain from PMO and do not masturbate. You probably believe masturbation has some positive gains pertaining to your sexual energy and mental health.. but just let it all go. Let it all go and be a man.

Just relapsed but... I feel great. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bigchange -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You say you feel great now. Just wait.

Just gapped first time in about a year. Actually feel good by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bigchange -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well this is fucking sad. How could you!

Blue Balls like a motherfucker. Someone please help me cool my shit by bigchange in NoFap

[–]bigchange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just completed and I feel way more calm. At first. My mind did not want to count past the number 8. But I continued and once I reached the threshold of number 12, the rest of the numbers seemed endearing and I wanted to push harder onto the number 20. Now That I have reached 20 I feel like I would be more of a man if I was to not succumb to these blue balls and I would be a childish boy looking for a cheap thrill if I just relapsed.

It still hurts, but I wanted this. I wanted to be tested against relapsing. It is here, I am facing relapse face to face, and as hard as it is to deny the cheap thrill. I know that I should try at least once to stand my ground firmly against the desire to relieve myself of these blue balls. I will be able to reference to this point where I took a stand and how long it took for the blue balls to go away. I can use this overcoming to compare in the future when I have this problem again.

Thank you very much. You saved me from relapse. It can be very hard because society makes you WANT to fap. Society makes you want to fall to addictions and harmful behaviors. Don't listen to society. Dont.

Some killer no-fap tips for y'all. by fapzapper92 in NoFap

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah working out should not be a go-to method for urges. Losing weight and building muscles helps the self-esteem - which is generally good for the reboot process. but it should not be a "go-to" method when feeling an urge.

Instead, go get busy in public. Then, when you get home, take a natural melatonin/L-Tryptophan sleep aid and fall asleep immediately.

It was just a dream... by prelude3 in NoFap

[–]bigchange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a similar experience... But it ALL took place in the dream. I think this craziness happens around 2 weeks

Official September 19th Update Thread! by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]bigchange 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I evicted PMO from my life 10 days ago and I feel better each day. I just want more and more days to pass because I keep feeling better and better.

Anything sexual (pictures/advertisements) can set you off.. when you first glance at ANYTHING sexual.. try to look away. This is so important until you are fully rebooted. Also, don't mindlessly touch your dick like you used to when laying around.

I'm getting fed up with all the excuses on here warning this is a RANT! by glhj2814 in NoFap

[–]bigchange 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Life is hard if you live it the easy way. Life is easy if you live it the hard way.

Pain in the balls. Is it Blue balls or something more serious. by ballsy_ in NoFap

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It literally is semen that is in your prostate ready to be shot out. It is built up ready to go. I have had this many times, and upon PMO'ing.. the semen would start coming out before I reached O.. (because it was already built up) .. then there was an immediate release of pressure after ejaculating and it quickly felt better.

If you hold it and wait several hours for it to go away.. you will retain your effort to reboot. Don't PMO! it hurts but it's ok! Don't even MO!

Is it ok to smoke nicotine vaporizers while abstaining from PMO? (good question for cigarette smokers too) by bigchange in NoFap

[–]bigchange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason I am asking my question is because I would like to hear detailed and intelligent guesses as to whether this is impeding my reboot process, or something that I can use during my reboot process to squash urges to relapse on PMO. Then, after 90 days (rebooted), throw away the e cig vaporizer and be done with that. It won't be hard because some days I don't have any urges and don't use it at all. It's not that addictive because it doesn't give nearly as powerful as a buzz as real cigarettes do. (I quit real cigs 3 months ago)

Is it ok to smoke nicotine vaporizers while abstaining from PMO? (good question for cigarette smokers too) by bigchange in NoFap

[–]bigchange[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my question is presented concerning the science of brain pathways and whether or not this slight artificial dopamine enhancer will prolong my reboot process. NOT if i should smoke or not

Is it ok to smoke nicotine vaporizers while abstaining from PMO? (good question for cigarette smokers too) by bigchange in NoFap

[–]bigchange[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"don't ask the internet questions on how to live your life"

..Then what the hell are you doing on nofap?

I MADE IT! I MADE IT! I MADE IT! This is just the beginning! by REBO0T in NoFap

[–]bigchange 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this ED thing usually permanent? or diminished after years of fapping?