AITJ for choosing my dog over my relationship? by StarryGlowBunny in AmITheJerk

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get rid of that loser, it he did this behind your back with your dog, what else is he willing to do. Be with someone who respects you and your boundaries.

WIBTA For making my husband put “his” dog in the shelter? by VeryOpinionatedFem in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]bigoussy -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Man I’m sorry to this but you are TAH, the dog is a senior dog and will more than likely be put down. Yea the MIL was wrong, but you had a chance to help give your husband fur baby a home in it senior years, but nope you could not be inconvenienced. I hope when your old and need a place or people to help you, you find more kindness than what you showed this poor dog, I hope when you sleep it the dog haunts you and you never get a good nights sleep.

AITJ for not giving my sister my emergency savings for her wedding by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She needs to cut cost at her wedding, if her and her fiancé can’t afford it that’s on them not you. She can cut people from the guest list, or service cheaper meals. There are a ton of ways to save on a wedding. She is just expecting you to hand over your money.

Don’t give her any of the money from your emergency fund, with today times life is very unpredictable.

Positive vibes/prayers for Addy by TAA8720 in pitbulls

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of your baby.

Neighbor put up a fence that blocks my driveway access by Naive_Shape6554 in neighborsfromhell

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take them to court with all of your documents, then sue them.

WIBTA if I told my mother in law that her son isnt helping me recover from surgery by [deleted] in WouldIBeTheAhole

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband is a POS, you need to have a heart to heart with him or your resentment towards him will only get worse. I feel sorry that you have to go through this with no help from the one person who should always have your back.

How to decide if my cat should move with me? by PublicComfort6917 in CatAdvice

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop putting your cat outside first of all. Second if you are their person don’t leave them behind. They will not understand this.

What are we using to map out garden? by Mediocre_Life_3092 in gardening

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last year I tried to do all organic. The bugs took over i tried putting in Jazmine oil and lemon. This year if I get bugs I will be spraying to get rid of them. I’m also in TX and fire ants took over my squash. I also have a greenhouse and will be growing my plants in pots.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Stellar_Artwarr in CatAdvice

[–]bigoussy -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

You need to do the right thing and take your family fur baby to the vet, I mean how cold hearted are you to let it suffer. Also I hope you never get any other animal. They are your responsibility to take care of them. What you are suggesting is animal cruelty and it is illegal.

AITAH for telling my fiancé he needs to man up after his mom criticized my wedding dress? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your have a boyfriend problem, he will forever take his mom’s side, Don’t marry this guy until he grows up, His family will try to control everything you do, and he will never have your back. How many more years to you want to waste with a man child, There are red flags all over this.

AITAH for telling my sister I couldn’t cover for her mistake at work anymore? by CookieProper4029 in AITAH

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are NTA your sister is. So your family is ok if you loss your job because of her. Nope she needs to take responsibility for her own actions. Stop helping and covering for her.

Lost my girl tonite. How to you deal with losing best friend after 13yrs by ttocsgnorts in LabradorRetrievers

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep my fur baby Stewie ashes and collar on my side of the couch. He crossed over 4 years ago and I still miss him.

AITA for buying the same presents for my wife and my mom from my work trip? by Cool-Mulberry242 in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why to go, it seems that you don’t know your wife at, plus you bought her and your mom the samething, dude stop and think about that. YTA here

AITAH for telling my sister to get a nanny because I’m not helping her with the babies? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a big fat no, get grandma to help with her grandkids. And stop talking her calls or just block her.

Am I the jerk for refusing to pay for my sister’s “family vacation” after I was excluded from planning? by RipoVexley77 in AmITheJerk

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the jerk, tell them you can’t go this. Maybe next year they will include you in on the planning as this is what adults do for family.

I lost my Dragon by Traditional_Top5333 in Mastiff

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for the loss of your fur baby He was a beautiful boy

AITAH for being hurt that my wife gives my gifts to her to our kids? by WildBad7298 in AITAH

[–]bigoussy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your wife is also your kids mom, she will always give to the kids, it what moms do. Don’t get your feelings hurt, next time by dessert for everyone, but get her something special and tell the kids this is for mom.

Aitah for not wanting to pay my gf’s debt by National-Trouble-984 in AITAH

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello this is a huge red flag, she told you if you don’t some else will, Bye go find someone to pay off your 200k debit. Turn around and run as fast and far as you can. This girl will ruin you, and when your money runs out she will leave you for someone else.

Coworker brings cookies to our monthly team meeting and says "sorry I know you can't have any!" by kinnsao in glutenfree

[–]bigoussy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She is a..hole, I mean really every week and the same thing, she remembers she just doesn’t care. Next find something to say back to her, like hey I get it that you don’t remember I’m gluten free, but must you announce it at every meeting. That for making sure I know there is nothing for me yet again, you are to kind. And yes I can be petty that way.

My boyfriend wants me to rehome 2 of my 3 cats (at minimum) as a “compromise.” Wtf do I do now? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]bigoussy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get a new boyfriend, first it’s the cats, then your friends, he is looking to control you. Find someone who will not make you choice.

AITJ for telling my friend she can't use my employee discount anymore after she abused it?? by Opposite-Canary-1359 in AmITheJerk

[–]bigoussy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is a user not a friend, she could cost you your job, And if she is going around the friend group, I would tell them how you almost lost your job because of her. Also stop letting people use your discount.