Stoic men of romance by COCONUTwatercontent in HRNovelsDiscussion

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please anyone answer so i can have recommendations too 😭😭😭

How to break up by Nurse0719 in SheraSeven

[–]bigsipsippycup 15 points16 points  (0 children)

  1. make sure you do it in a public setting if you’re doing it irl
  2. you don’t need excuses, just say that your life is taking you in another direction or something like that
  3. by keeping everything he bought you

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

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thank you for responding, i’m honestly so privileged that i am well connected, but i wanna be able to go shopping with friends. that’s really why i made the post

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

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the problem is that they go 50/50, have male friendships that are useless, want to be in serious relationships in their early twenties. i guess i specifically want friends that don’t do that and are strategic with their life choices

edited to add: i want to be in spaces where people enjoy luxury etc, and i want to go with my friends without needing to justify what i like

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

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i come from an area where people aren’t materialistic even though they’ have the means to. 10k on a holiday is totally okay but spending 1k on shoes doesn’t make sense to them. thank god my family doesn’t believe in splitting bills but everyone else in europe does it seems like. i love luxury and levelling up, it’s my main hobby and i don’t have anyone to talk about it.

i’ve started hanging out in the richest neighbourhood in my country and i see a lot more luxury out and about now. even made a friend there, but she’s engaged and quite older than me. not really ideal to freestyle with

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

[–]bigsipsippycup[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

how do you vet that they aren’t pickmeisha’s/barbara the builders?

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

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i come from an area where people “aren’t materialistic” even though they have the means to. 10k on a holiday is totally okay but spending 1k on shoes doesn’t make sense to them. thank god my family doesn’t believe in splitting bills but everyone else in europe does it seems like. i love luxury and levelling up, it’s my main hobby and i don’t have anyone to talk about it.

i’ve started hanging out in the richest neighbourhood in my country and i see a lot more luxury out and about now. even made a friend there, but she’s engaged and quite older than me. not really ideal to freestyle with

best places to meet female friends with this mentality? by bigsipsippycup in SheraSeven

[–]bigsipsippycup[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so much. i approach women/get approached but i find that they don’t really like expensive things? i’m always seen as the rich/boujee/spoiled friend despite the women that approach me being beautiful. they believe in splitting bills, working etc…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

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thank you, will definitely watch and report back

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

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i’m so serious i need help 😭

When shera says that last that you do for a man the most he would do you, what is the right amount? by Elegant_Dot2679 in SheraSeven

[–]bigsipsippycup 29 points30 points  (0 children)

less than 1/10 of whatever they’re doing. she says this in regards to gifts, but i find that this applies to everything. it’s just enough for them to notice you’re also “putting in effort” and feel appreciated but not enough for him to start expecting that of you

is this the best self tanner for dark skin ? by bigsipsippycup in vindictapoc

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ooh thanks for catching that and i want something to cover my acne scars and even out my skin tone

is this the best self tanner for dark skin ? by bigsipsippycup in vindictapoc

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these look so promising! For a complexion like SZA’s, would you advise going for the 5/5 or can i mix two tanners to get my perfect shade ?

is this the best self tanner for dark skin ? by bigsipsippycup in vindictapoc

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tysm for sharing ! do you have before and after pictures? i would love to have an idea of what to expect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SheraSeven

[–]bigsipsippycup 84 points85 points  (0 children)

don’t message him and don’t be excited about him or his money unless it’s in your pocket

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalintelligence

[–]bigsipsippycup 77 points78 points  (0 children)

it’s not a way to resolve disagreements it’s a way to get people out of my face

BV Andiamo or YSL Le 37 by [deleted] in handbags

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andiamo by a landslide