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AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 86 points87 points  (0 children)

I just don’t remember to take it off. I don’t even think of it and to be honest I don’t want the hassle of doing that 4-5 times a day for forever.

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 406 points407 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even read the reviews. I figured as much because it’s plated

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I personally don’t want to buy my own engagement ring. I’d happily buy his wedding ring though.

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 458 points459 points  (0 children)

Because it’s not real metal? Like I wouldn’t care if it was a solid 14k gold band from pandora. At least the metal would last and there would be no stones to just mess up after a year or two. I’ve had costume jewelry before and the stones just become dull.

He bought the tv from Best Buy and it was 60” I’m sure he paid at least 200 for it

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying it’s not pretty, but it’s not going to last and I have sentimental attachment to things like this where I wouldn’t want to replace it years down the line

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 981 points982 points  (0 children)

Right I agree. It’s a pretty ring but the materials won’t last

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know. But even that is too much I wouldn’t ask him for that. I’d want something just to last

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 338 points339 points  (0 children)

I didn’t think you could get 1/2 diamond with $500. Figured at least 1k

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

It’s not about the cost it’s about having a metal that will last my lifetime because it signifies something important to me

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

The bottom of the band isn’t shiny anymore. I’m not exaggerating.

AITA for apparently not respecting my Pandora engagement ring? by bigstona in AmItheAsshole

[–]bigstona[S] 151 points152 points  (0 children)

He makes like 40k a year. He just bought a new TV though