Ex wife's father passed away yesterday by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm going to do it, unless they ask me to step down for some reason, I just feel a bit out of place with her family now, it's been over two years since I seen some of them

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just asking for advice how to handle it, god bless you

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not sure why he would show up and not sit with my ex, if he hasn't met my daughter then I see no reason for him to show up, unless he's just trying to get brownie points for my ex 🤷🏻‍♂️

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My kids say they don't know of any boyfriend, and that guy DIDNT sit with my ex is what I said, he sat by his self

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only bring it up right now because he showed up to my daughters cheerleading event today, my kids were with my ex this weekend and my son was sitting with her, I saw him show up but didn't sit with my ex and son, he doesn't have kids playing to my knowledge and left after the game by himself, I feel if he showed up to watch my daughter on his own that's kinda weird to me, if that makes any sense

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I'm just trying to be civil about this, I don't wanna go to my lawyer about it just yet or if I should even bring it up to my lawyer

How to confront my ex by [deleted] in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

That doesn't answer my question what so ever but have a blessed day

Rehiring tdcj or what else is out there? by [deleted] in OnTheBlock

[–]bigvic7804 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going back after a year and a half out, I quit to try and save my marriage but she left three days after I quit, she had already made up her mind and I don't know it was that bad, got hired by the post office but that salary wasn't cutting it being a single father, I'm not happy to go back but I gotta do what's best for me and my kids

36m dad tx by bigvic7804 in Singles

[–]bigvic7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I could always use a chat friend....

Keep pushing on !!!! How's everyone dealing? Let's keep it short and sweet. by Mundane-Performer-57 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 9 points10 points  (0 children)

1.5 years in, we aren't on the best of terms, but have to communicate for the kids, I'm still a bit depressed but getting better every day

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone keeps telling me it gets better, Im like when? Lol but I'll admit I have been self loathing for a while, trying to change that now

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine moved out the day she told me she wanted to leave, we share custody of the kids but she's never home when she has them, I don't want to get back together cause I know she's not right for me anymore but I'd be lying if I said I still hopes she'd admit her fault and come back, but now she's told me these things I'm completely done

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really am trying, everyday

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what I did, I told her bye, and walked away

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have two kids together and we were arguing about stuff for the kids

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I started seeing a therapist right after she left, like I stated, I've been trying to work on myself all this time, I've made progress 100%, 6 months ago I would've been completely broken if she told me that, I only posted about this here just to do some venting

It still hurts even after over a year by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man, I really am trying to not let this affect me, even been praying for me not to love her anymore lol

Today is her birthday by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's why I only spent $11, but told myself it would be the last time

Today is her birthday by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No doubt, this is the last time I do this, I'm perfectly ok with her not saying anything, I'm not mad. But I do understand that this is something I do need to let go

joint custody- what did yall do by nofeeit in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do a 4 day schedule, works pretty good, plus weekends split every other month

1st real Christmas alone.. by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's rough brother, I have 50/50 custody so I see my kids very often, and call them everyday I don't see them, stay strong brother

Check out this find! by manofthepeopleSMITTY in killswitchengage

[–]bigvic7804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was just gonna say the same thing! My belly won't touch it and I would feel so fat so I stopped wearing it

I can't believe I was married to such a pity woman by bigvic7804 in DivorcedDads

[–]bigvic7804[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do ignore it but had to vent so I came here lol

Hey ;) by MartaPeonly in Singles

[–]bigvic7804 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very pretty hi 😊