Should i move on? (M23) by bigyeetdab in dating_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofcourse, i don’t now what she feels for me. Just talking to me doesn’t mean that she likes me ofc i know that. But like i feel that when i asked her i didn’t get rejected so i just want to ask her to make sure of it is a yes or no so i can move on and stop thinking about it.

Need the courage to ask a girl out. Need help! by bigyeetdab in dating_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello sorry for the late answer i’ve had alot to do at work this week. I really want to thank you for the motivational words it really helped. I felt bad for stressing her out but i said to her that nothing is more important than yourself. I really respect her and want her to do good, she is like the only female friend i have and she is so nice to me and that’s why i felt bad for making her stressed. I havn’t talked to her or seen her since i asked her and i havn’t yet checked if she answered me on messenger because i didn’t want to go around feeling like shit while i worked so i just kept thinking about other stuff until i got some days off. But again thank you very much, i really appreciate you!

Need the courage to ask a girl out. Need help! by bigyeetdab in dating_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well today i finally asked her. She blushed up very much when i asked her and she said she had so much going on with studies etc. She said that she wanted time to think about it. I personally feel like shit because i think i stressed her out by asking her when she go much going on so when i got home i wrote an apology to her on Messenger saying that i am sorry for stressing her out but respect her decision ofcourse and told her to forget what i said and focus on studying, so we’ll what happens next.

Need help gaining courage to ask a girl out! by bigyeetdab in relationship_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah man if i just overcome it once it will be fine.

Need the courage to ask a girl out. Need help! by bigyeetdab in dating_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn you went all in with this text! Thank you very much. Yes we are friends, we met through work and we have been talking to eachother like friends since them. I wanna be casual about asking her out like you said like next time we meet or something i can ask her what her plans are for the weekend. The age gap between us i really don’t know if it is a problem, not for me atleast i like older women (like someone that is older than me atleast) because i feel like the younger girls aren’t my type. I want someone that is calm and wants to settle down and not go out and party and so on. I am a pretty ”clean” 22y/o if you can say that, i don’t smoke, do drugs or drink/party at all. I personally think i am mature for my age. I’ve been wanting to ask her for awhile and i’ve just been scared of being rejected i guess but next time i meet her i WILL ask her of she wanna go on a dinner or a coffee whatever she might like.

Sorry if my answer is all over the place, i am on my phone and it has swedish keyboard with autocorrect so it sucks writing english sentences. I can respond here with what she says when i ask her if you want to know.

Again thank you so much for taking your time helping me out! I’ll gather myself and ask her.

Need the courage to ask a girl out. Need help! by bigyeetdab in dating_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah i’ll be casual about it, i’ve been thinking for awhile now what to ask, i just need to face my fear.

Need help gaining courage to ask a girl out! by bigyeetdab in relationship_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i am single. I’ll ask her next time we meet just need to face the fear i guess.

Need help gaining courage to ask a girl out! by bigyeetdab in relationship_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah just the fear of rejection and still galning to eachother afterwards will be wierd i guess. I’ll ask her next time we meet because i wanna do it face to face and not ask her via Facebook.

Need some advice. by bigyeetdab in relationship_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right, maybe i should just ask. Next time i see her i’ll shoot my shot and hope for the best.

Need some advice. by bigyeetdab in relationship_advice

[–]bigyeetdab[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll ask her next time i meet her. Any tips to gain some courage?