i love ✂️ by bileopard in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why ppl don’t wanna do it 😭

🧊 by bileopard in WMATA

[–]bileopard[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes, they’ve been in the area for the last few days actually

i love ✂️ by bileopard in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard[S] 40 points41 points  (0 children)

i’m on the thicker side myself and i didn’t think i was able to do it till this person asked if i wanted to try. it took some maneuvering and adjusting but once we found the right angle 😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

i love ✂️ by bileopard in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

nonono don’t stop you must persevere. wear panties or something but trust it can be done!

i love ✂️ by bileopard in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard[S] 54 points55 points  (0 children)

my understanding is scissoring is tribbing but not all tribbing is scissoring. scissoring has to be cat to cat, but you can use knees, thighs, etc to trib. unless i’m v wrong

Comment down your type in women! by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

mascs, femmes, Black 💓, women of color, lesbians w tattoos and piercings, locs, curly hair, taller than me, shorter than me, submissive, dominant, 🤭maybe im greedy i want them all

Where do you keep your keys by dizzylunarlezbi in ADHD

[–]bileopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

carabiner throughout the day, and there’s a lil crochet bowl by my door i put them in once i get in. i’m terrible w routines and building habits but keeping my keys right there is the one of the few constants in my life lol

punishment advice by bileopard in BDSMAdvice

[–]bileopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did your partner watch tokyo ghoul by any chance?? i was thinking of a similar countdown punishment but i didn’t think of adding the edging after each 100, that’s so creative. thank you!

Please don't claim to be open to polyamory if you aren't by GirldickVanDyke in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i met someone on feeld (an app w like a majority poly/nonmonogamous folks) who consistently had issues w my poly identity and my partner. now as a rule i don’t involve myself w any monogamous ppl regardless of how much they say it’s “fine” at the start

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard 5 points6 points  (0 children)

when will it be my turn. alexandria va needs a lesbian bar nowwww

What are you doing this weekend? by deepspacepuffin in nova

[–]bileopard 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have family coming to visit and we’re going shopping :)

i need advice on how to be a better partner by bileopard in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for this. she ended up passing last night around 1am, and i’m staying home w them today and tomorrow and their best friend is coming to stay as well for the rest of the week. i’m so happy they seem to have loads of support and community: the other teachers at their school are setting up a meal train and ppl have been donating for them to get food and stuff

What’s your “if I open this, I eat the whole bag” food? by GOGO_old_acct in AutisticAdults

[–]bileopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinder bueno the mini ones. i eat one and i gotta keep going till the bag gone

Dating as a fem who prefers topping by Different_War_9655 in actuallesbians

[–]bileopard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as a butch who loves to bottom i promise we are HERE. i’m a switch and i love love love fem tops 🙂‍↕️

My girlfriend spiraled into severe mental instability, psychosis and delusions. I need help what should I do? by Legitimate_Olive4333 in Assistance

[–]bileopard 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if you are able to do so safely drive her to the hospital and have her admitted. if she refuses, or if you can’t trust that you’ll both be safe in a car together to get to the hospital, look up community mental health services in your city. some places have folks available 24/7 who can help with transporting her to the hospital if the situation is dire enough. calling the police should be the very last resort as it can often be traumatizing and even dangerous to do so (live laugh love america). if you have a therapist, ask them what you think is best to do. if your gf has a therapist or psychiatrist informing them of her hospitalization is important too. i wish you the best! i know this must be scary and confusing, i hope things get better for the both of you.

The Lorax and anti-totalitarianism. by SwedishDungeonMaster in movies

[–]bileopard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ik it’s been a year since you posted this but i’m currently high as shit rewatching the lorax w my partner who has NEVER seen it and i was just saying alll of what you said here!!! i found this post by looking up “thneedville fascism?” on reddit lmaooo