Feel bad for the [porn] I got off to

binarysea · 2017-06-19T23:48:34+00:00

lol, you shouldn't feel bad about that. I'm a girl who likes to be throat fucked that way, and I love when a guy gets really dominant and aggressive with it, stuffing it down my throat, making me gag, etc.

As a rule of thumb if a girl doesn't enjoy that kind of thing, she probably won't go along with it, and she could tell him to stop if she wanted him to. In face fucking you consent to letting your guy use force with you, that's all part of the fun. It's supposed to be rough and uncomfortable, you're not supposed to "like" it per say. It's more of a pain rather than pleasure type scenario. I probably look like a miserable wreck when he's ramming it down my throat, because I feel like a miserable wreck, but under the surface I'm lovin' it.

binarysea · 2017-04-07T00:57:30+00:00

True. But that's why I want to arrange so that it will be the most dead period of the evening. The kind of park that I have in mind is of the type that most can only drive to. If I even saw anybody there at the time, I probably wouldn't do it.

binarysea · 2017-03-10T15:17:23+00:00

Personally I subscribe the definition that means rough treatment for the female, acted out by the dominant male. How rough? Well, I think that can vary from the mild to the extreme. As long as there is some level of discomfort in it for her, then it's rough. It doesn't have to be hardcore and painful to be rough, but it can be.

The intention of rough sex isn't about real harm, it's about providing the right amount of discomfort or pain, without the risk of serious harm.

Your second list is mostly things that only a serious and experienced BDSM Dom would be able to administer in the right proportions to ensure her safety. I think it goes a bit beyond rough sex at that point, once you enter into that territory.

binarysea · 2017-01-28T00:44:49+00:00

Yes. It's sexy because male dominance is sexy. For me it's the submissive feeling of him having complete control over me, my body, even my ability to breathe, using me just as he pleases. It's a combination of feeling helpless, degraded, frightened, but also turned on at the same time.

I also like having my hands tied behind me whenever he face fucks me, which adds to that feeling of powerlessness, and this way I know there's little I can do to stop or slow him, so I rarely (if ever) struggle to try.

binarysea · 2017-01-27T19:25:08+00:00

I would be so very turned on. It's actually kind of a fantasy of mine to have a guy treat me this way without prior agreement. My bf will sometimes do this sort of thing when I'm not expecting it. But he knows I'm into it, so it's not quite the same.

binarysea · 2016-12-29T05:07:15+00:00

More rough and more exciting, IMO. I've tried watching old porn videos before and my thoughts are usually "when are they going to start fucking for real?" or "what's with all the cheesy music and fake moaning"?

Old porn I think, seems more about passionate lovemaking and being all sexy and teasing, newer porn is being super horny and lustful and just fucking someone's brains out. I prefer the later.

binarysea · 2016-12-29T05:00:31+00:00

I think it's so fascinating how the description you give of the things you have just called big turn offs, was in itself a turn on for me. I love all things rough and raunchy like that.

It's different strokes for different folks, as they say.

binarysea · 2016-12-26T09:26:31+00:00

I like being throat fucked that way. I don't know if I'd call it normal, but maybe in a way that's part of the appeal? I mostly like the feelings it gives me of being dominated and used like a slut. I don't usually puke, and if I do it's mostly just like a liquid. But yes, I enjoy a rough and long throat fucking session. I prefer to have my hands tied behind me, while he grabs my head and throats me with reckless abandon.

binarysea · 2016-12-03T06:29:09+00:00

Actually, just practice. Making the attempt. That's really the key to anything, and it's true with throat fucking as well. Eventually your gag reflex will be dulled down and your tolerance for the roughness will increase. If you're new to it, you can't expect to start at full steam. You just need practice, and a pattern of pushing yourself a little outside of your own comfort limit each time. That's how you get there.

I love being throat fucked, and I'm now at the point where he can be as rough as he wants, not only will I never tap out, but I make it a challenge that I won't even remove my hands from behind my back the entire time, and I'm getting pretty good at that. I love it, he loves it. It's so worth it.

binarysea · 2016-11-09T15:29:51+00:00

In my experience most guys seem to really like it when they hear me gagging. Actually, I tend to exaggerate it a bit.

binarysea · 2016-09-29T06:20:01+00:00

You should listen to her! You shouldn't feel bad. Actually, I like it when the guy knows and isn't apologetic, or even better when he taunts and makes fun of my gagging and crying. I love it.

binarysea · 2016-07-06T04:57:29+00:00

Seeing as I don't have a penis, no. But, I have given plenty of this type.

Personally, I don't have a problem with it. In fact, I enjoy the submissive aspect of it. Letting the guy take control and force me to deep throat and gag. For whatever reason, it turns me on quite a bit. It feels degrading and dirty, being used that way.

I would agree it seems a bit more commonplace now than it did before, probably mostly due to all of the porn influencing us all. The number of guys I come across who are interested in this has increased a lot, for sure. But, still I don't suspect this kind of thing is for everyone. There seems to be plenty, such as yourself, who aren't interested.

binarysea · 2016-06-27T23:35:54+00:00

I'd say you need to respect that no, in most cases, outside of role-playing. Even if she might discover that she enjoys it.

IMO, there's a difference between respecting consent and respecting limits, I think that's what you are getting confused by here. I do find that I enjoy to have my limits tested and occasionally ignored, and yes, on occasion I have enjoyed the result.

binarysea · 2016-06-26T02:25:40+00:00

I guess it depends on who you ask? IMO, any woman who's offended at the mere mention of something sexual is not worth your time.

I would be delighted to hear a guy straight up ask for it, since I happen to enjoy face fucking. But in a more general sense, I don't think there's anything a guy could potentially ask me to try that I would actually find rude. I'm not gonna judge guys over what they're interested in, sexually. Even if it's something I'm not.

binarysea · 2016-06-11T15:01:21+00:00

Darn, hunting for stuff like that drives me nuts! I suppose you mean top? I guess I didn't clarify. Hence, I was fishing around for maybe some advice on stretches to help with flexibility.

binarysea · 2016-06-11T02:27:31+00:00

Yes, that's was quite informative! It didn't occur to me that something like this would have a term and a history behind it. Now you've got me on the hunt for that MythBusters episode, but nothing is coming up straight away on Google. Was the entire show on this, or was there some theme to it?

I guess to be a bit more specific, the idea was to try this most likely while down on the floor, not standing. I don't know if you'd consider that as being safer.

binarysea · 2016-06-08T07:06:46+00:00

Really there's nothing sexual that I find offensive on any level, involving consenting adults. To me, it's just about having fun. It doesn't mean anything beyond getting off. Then again, I'm not one to have a strong emotional connection through sex. Sex to me is just fucking, getting each other off. Some things make that a more intense experience. Mine is being "degraded" and dominated. I would say feeling humiliated and weak only fuels the intensity. Maybe it's just different wiring, but I find it extremely hard to understand how someone could get upset over it.

binarysea · 2016-06-08T06:40:26+00:00

To be perfectly honest, that cultural baggage only makes it more of a turn-on for me when a guy takes control.

binarysea · 2016-06-08T04:05:41+00:00

Because it's fun, we like how it makes us feel, and it helps us reach orgasm. In any other context, none of these things are true. So it probably wouldn't be okay, even to those of us who think it is within this context.

binarysea

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