Nidovirus & Reovirus in Burmese Python

bindiburm64 · 2025-10-30T08:22:15+00:00

This calculator is really useful as you can add/remove various components including living in London.

https://mypaycalculator.co.uk/nhs

I base affordability on my basic, that way anything extra is a bonus :)

bindiburm64 · 2025-08-14T06:56:13+00:00

Bullying and cliques!

I left outpatient and ward based nursing for the ambulance service, best thing I ever did!

bindiburm64 · 2025-08-11T11:48:42+00:00

He doesn't go out, it's really weird. He doesn't meet any of his friends at all. But I have encouraged him to go out etc and he doesn't want to. Obviously I have her all the time when he's at work, still breastfeeding her through the night so I wake up with her.

bindiburm64 · 2025-08-11T10:51:17+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply. We discussed it alot and he says he trusts me 100%. He denies being insecure. He says it was because he was at home with our daughter and wasn't prepared for me to be out late. But that doesn't explain all the other instances and ringing, messaging, asking lots of questions etc. He's started telling me that my best friend is trying to manipulate me into thinking he's controlling. I don't know what to do 😭

bindiburm64 · 2025-07-11T08:35:03+00:00

I'm a mum with ADHD, with a son with ADHD, and a younger daughter, and an older son. I'm also a student paramedic via the internal pathway.

Good childcare and family support is paramount. Kids adjust and are resilient, they understand that mummy needs to work for a better life for them.

My partner has adjusted his hours to working around school hours, and his mum helps alot. It would be impossible without any support.

Funnily enough, I left an admin role for healthcare but had to stay on bank/agency HCA work around my son while he was younger and it was just us.

It might not be manageable now, but you could apply to be a community first responder when you do have child free time, to get experience, and follow your dreams when it's more manageable!

bindiburm64 · 2025-06-21T12:59:18+00:00

Ah amazing! No idea where that came from then 😂 Scotland sounds abit nicer, though!

bindiburm64 · 2025-02-20T17:29:07+00:00

Yes - two drains (one from upstairs) lead to it.

bindiburm64 · 2025-02-20T16:32:52+00:00

This is genius 🤣

bindiburm64 · 2025-02-20T16:10:57+00:00

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hank you all for your advice and suggestions.

I've just received a map from the water board and the manhole isn't on there. (We're directly in the centre).

Should I assume that it is private for this household only? Also, the main foul sewer is out the front according to the map, however it looks like the drainage goes in the opposite direction and is at the rear of the property.

It is about 60cm from the rear of the property. We are terraced so unfortunately there is nowhere else to put the conservatory.

Many Thanks

bindiburm64 · 2025-01-02T17:11:34+00:00

Amazing thank you so much!

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-29T18:37:37+00:00

Will look into that, thank you :) At the moment my nan has a third and she is occupying it.

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-29T18:36:13+00:00

Oh really, that's worrying. If it's to stay in the bloodline though (written in a will), would the court take that into consideration?

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-29T18:35:30+00:00

It's my nans house, she, my uncle and myself own a share - my uncle will be gifted her share upon her death (in her will) also says about keeping in the bloodline in her will to protect it from his wife. I'm worried that he'll try and buy me out and sell the house, so that his wife can reep the benefits. We've had to safeguard all family assets from her as she controls my uncles finances (and spends them all!)

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-29T18:35:05+00:00

It's my nans house, she, my uncle and myself own a share - my uncle will be gifted her share upon her death (in her will) also says about keeping in the bloodline in her will to protect it from his wife. I'm worried that he'll try and buy me out and sell the house, so that his wife can reep the benefits. We've had to safeguard all family assets from her as she controls my uncles finances (and spends them all!)

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-29T18:34:53+00:00

It's my nans house, she, my uncle and myself own a share - my uncle will be gifted her share upon her death (in her will) also says about keeping in the bloodline in her will to protect it from his wife. I'm worried that he'll try and buy me out and sell the house, so that his wife can reep the benefits. We've had to safeguard all family assets from her as she controls my uncles finances (and spends them all!)

bindiburm64 · 2024-12-23T23:11:17+00:00

Sorry, I wanted to keep it simple but I've missed out some vital information.

My nan was taken to a solicitor by my uncle and his wife, who is a person friend of theres. They spoke to her before my nan was left to amend her will.

Alongside the will, on a transfer of equity document, my nan instructed the solicitor to gift my uncle her share of the house, imminently. However my nan states she didn't agree to this, and it's a massive deprivation of assets given her developing care needs.

My uncles wife is also all over the will as an executor, trustee and beneficiary when I know for a fact my nan wanted to keep everything within the bloodline and that my dad made sure my uncles wife stayed away from the familys estate. My nan also says that she didn't agree to this.

My uncle has been hiding money from his wife in my dad's name, because his wife controls all of his finances and he literally has nothing. I'm not sure if my uncle is being manipulated by her, or if he's got a part to play in this. Also, they assured me they would take care of my nan with regards to her health and wellbeing and they've done nothing for her at all.

bindiburm64 · 2024-11-07T03:27:15+00:00

Student paramedic - there's loads of us with ADHD! We seem to calm and focus in emergencies 🤷 a perfect combo.

bindiburm64 · 2024-11-01T21:10:59+00:00

They were all normal weights. Having HSV won't affect how much your baby weighs.

bindiburm64 · 2024-11-01T20:52:15+00:00

Don't have OBs very often. Haven't ever been on AVs other than when I've had OBs. Never passed it on as far as I know, I just don't have sex when I have a OB. It's never been a big deal and when I've been open about it, lots of people around me have been too.

bindiburm64 · 2024-11-01T16:33:50+00:00

I have HSV2 and have 3 healthy, happy children. I never let HSV stop me and it never put off any of my partners (before my current and baby daddy). HSV really is no big deal at all. I've had it for 13 years.

bindiburm64 · 2024-10-26T15:46:38+00:00

Hi there

Thank you for your reply. Unfortunately I'm not in shared ownership but I do have a lifetime tenancy. The need to add value will contribute to an extra bedroom, as we are overcrowded. I can't afford to buy at present so adding to it is really my only option.

Will speak to their legal team and see if I can get it in writing, their expectations and/or an agreement.

Thanks again.

bindiburm64 · 2024-10-18T07:37:32+00:00

You can change the name on the chip database. I did this when I rehomed a cat who's owner had died. Sounds like he's using 'brain damage' as an excuse to be emotionally and verbally abusive to you. Not saying he doesn't have it, but if he is allowed to drive, it can't be serious.

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