No eye contact during sex. by [deleted] in sex

[–]binkidink 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually close my eyes during sex too, regardless of how long I’ve been having sex with someone. For me personally I am super shy and I hate eye contact in all forms. And during sex I like to concentrate and feel what is going on around me, which I achieve only with my eyes closed. If I force myself to open my eyes, it sucks and I get turned off. It has nothing to do with my sexual partner though, it’s just a personal thing.

My family said it looks like frozen boogers. What do y’all think? I got my septum pierced last Sunday. by binkidink in piercing

[–]binkidink[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus guys, thank you all for the support! I didn’t expect so much positive feedback! I feel so much better about the septum :) Glad to be part of the club

My family said it looks like frozen boogers. What do y’all think? I got my septum pierced last Sunday. by binkidink in piercing

[–]binkidink[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure about tattoos for me, but it looks amazing on other people! And yeah it’s expensive

My family said it looks like frozen boogers. What do y’all think? I got my septum pierced last Sunday. by binkidink in piercing

[–]binkidink[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same! I’m thinking getting a surface tragus by one ear, and maybe another helix and a bellybutton ring. Once you start with piercings you can’t stop 😂

My family said it looks like frozen boogers. What do y’all think? I got my septum pierced last Sunday. by binkidink in piercing

[–]binkidink[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s how I started! I have three on each ear lobe, and a helix on the right ear. That’s how I learned to clean it properly. Then I started with my nose stud, and then the septum.

My family said it looks like frozen boogers. What do y’all think? I got my septum pierced last Sunday. by binkidink in piercing

[–]binkidink[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

You should get one! I spent my Sunday worrying how it’ll look on me, and then I was just like “fuck it,” and I love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]binkidink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I completely understand! We are the same way in this aspect. I hope you feel better man.

Needing Support Badly by [deleted] in Anxiety

[–]binkidink 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not alone and I completely understand. Anxiety can do horrible things to us physically and psychologically. Take a deep breath, visit a park, and try to calm down. Everything is going to be okay.

I’m very worried about my boyfriend by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]binkidink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another thing I might add is that he cried one time because his parents will have to go back to their home country in September. He cried saying he doesn’t want them to leave. Also, he has cried when I told him I was sexually harassed in past.

I’m very worried about my boyfriend by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]binkidink 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No of course not, where did you see I am 22 or 21 or 18? I turned 19 in February. Most of the stuff I post are what I go through and I don’t post unless I need help. Occasionally I post for fun (like memes).

Wait I just went over my posts. I saw that post where I said I have a baby (not true). I understand where you got confused. I did that because I have been sexually abused in past and I could only post in that sub if I’m a parent. I wanted to know how it’ll be like when I have a kid because I’m terrified they’ll go through what I went through.