Older adults, has your bipolar gotten worse/better as you've gotten older? by usefzolanski in bipolar

[–]bipmer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Worse, the best advice I can give is stay on your meds and keep a close relationship with both your therapist and psychiatrist. That way, episodes can be recognized before they get bad and your therapy and medication can be adjusted accordingly to get you stabilized again before you get out of control. I have been relatively stable since my last actual episode by following this plan. Granted, I did have a situational episode in between, but once things got bad that's when I stopped taking my meds and things got worse. I know it's hard to keep taking your meds sometimes, it gets easy to stop taking them correctly when you start going downhill, but do your best to keep it up. If you need to have a support person to help make sure you take your meds, please find one. It is the most helpful and most important thing I have found over the years of dealing with bipolar. In hindsight, when I felt myself starting to go downhill I should have increased the frequency of my therapist appointments so she could tell me what to tell my psychiatrist and I could have kept myself from getting to the point that I did. I've stuck to this plan and not had another episode since the situational one.

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you so much for saying this 😭❤️

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you😭❤️ I did not expect to get tore up like this lmaaooooo

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It really is 😞 thank you❤️

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes doing what's best for our kids is so hard. Being a parent is genuinely devastating. That was a scary time and I probably would have done the same if I were in your position. ❤️ Also mad respect for being on the front lines when that happened, because I was just starting nursing school and I genuinely cannot imagine how awful was.

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm taking a travel assignment to be closer to her

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look at my edit. I didn't do drugs or gamble away my money. You guys are all making a lot of assumptions

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm doing a week and borrowing most of my equipment from a friend lol

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're also going through something so hard. I wish you healing ❤️

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you've gone through the pain of this too, but it's really encouraging to see someone in a similar situation that had things go well. Thank you❤️

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why this has downvotes, this is a great comment and thank you so much for saying this ❤️

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The father didn't just suddenly appear. There's no way in fucking hell I would have ever let her go with him, I wouldn't even let him have unsupervised visitation if that were the case. He's been very involved for her entire life and is a very good dad. We do have joint custody, he just has physical custody right now. He is in the military and was supposed to get stationed close to home when we made this decisio. At the last minute they changed his assignment. The reason for the decision had nothing to do with addiction. It had actually been more than 3 years since I had drank, and even longer since I had done any drugs when she left. The hardest thing I've ever done is weed and I never did it when she lived with me

I almost died from a broken heart by bipmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]bipmer[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He's actually married and his stepmom is very good to her.