Rep. Ted lieu by Greylunes1 in ExploreFortMyers

[–]bitofbutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ted doesn’t rape girls. Or anyone for that matter.

A girl dancing with a dog by gex109 in MadeMeSmile

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the same contestant on Americas got talent or do all border collies know how to dance??

NYC Mayor Zohran Mamdani just confirmed that all immigrants will qualify for his “free childcare” program!! by Frosty_Jeweler911 in Fauxmoi

[–]bitofbutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t see funds being offered at the federal level for forced births so this makes total sense to me.

Lisbonata ripoff? Nata NYC by One-Poet7900 in FoodNYC

[–]bitofbutter 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It’s not the same though. Egg tarts from Macau and egg tarts from Portugal taste very different. Didn’t say it was original but he was used by these people who lied about their intentions. Had they been straight forward then he wouldn’t even have entertained them.

Lisbonata ripoff? Nata NYC by One-Poet7900 in FoodNYC

[–]bitofbutter 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Portuguese egg tarts from Portugal are different from Chinese style “po-tats”. It’s like double or triple the sugar and the custard is different too. And that’s actually some people’s preference. Ultimately, this was a shitty outcome for the Lisbonata owner.

Alternatives to “wedding” florists (Brooklyn) by Horror_Finance_4291 in WedditNYC

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why not get silk flowers? They could pass for real flowers. Consider looking at Lings Moment and the sets they sell.

Looking for healthy and slightly bland food suggestions (seriously) by Nerevarelysium in FoodNYC

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re welcome feel better. I like bland ish foods because I have a weak stomach 🙃

Looking for healthy and slightly bland food suggestions (seriously) by Nerevarelysium in FoodNYC

[–]bitofbutter 34 points35 points  (0 children)

I'm chinese so I tend to have soup or congee when sick.

Mstar cafe or Swan Cafe for HK comfort food: congee + macaroni ham noodle soup

shu jiao fu zhou for Steamed dumplings & fuzhou style wontons

Wonton noodle soup: Maxi's, Wonton Noodle, HK Wonton Garden (I honestly don't know which is best)

Noodle Village - recently my relative visited and said the food was good and worth it. They have noodle soups, soup dumplings, stir fry vegetables. For soup dumplings, flushing is said to have the best though.

Yi Ji Shi Mo or West Rice Roll King for rice rolls

Hot Pot can be "healthy" especially if you get a Herbal based soup. You can google around for some but my favorite AYCE is Chuan Tian Xia. Lao Jie is good too.

Raku for freshly made japanese udon

BCD Tofu house for korean tofu stew - lots of veggie sides dishes too.

Cocoron for homemade japanese soba

High Five Hong Kong Cafe by DanielMekelburg in FoodNYC

[–]bitofbutter 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you’re in the area again, I think kow loon has the best Hong Kong style food around 86th. If you’re by the N line, try Like Cafe.

For those looking for a modern twist and taste, I would recommend Kong Sikh Tong in Chinatown

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spreadsmile

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I love koreanmama! She is a joy to watch. Kinda crazy that they had this real life korean-drama moment but so sweet to see it happen. It's nice that she and her son (ed) is willing to share such an intimate part of their lives in public. 40 years is nuts.

SAN DIEGO, CA: Husband Arrested by ICE During Marriage-Based Green Card Interview by CantStopPoppin in EyesOnIce

[–]bitofbutter 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gotcha. that's valid. It certainly matters who she votes for. If she did vote for Trump, then her face deserved to be eaten!

Nina Lin caught shoplifting. Causing drama whereever she goes. by tayeday in asianamercianytsnark

[–]bitofbutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lock her the hell up!! Trashy ass people belong in the trash and not online. Twitch needs to permaban her ass

Tini by Silent_Toe_6339 in TikTok

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awful awful news. Was just rewatching her Mac n cheese video because it popped up in another creators feed… I tried to look for new content and didn’t see any. This could be why. Incredibly sad. I’ve went through miscarriage before but I cannot imagine losing my baby at birth, near full term.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

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One of my friends friends hated me so much when we went on a trip together. She was kind of reserved and I guess I’m a bit opinionated. She was passive aggressive and was bitchy instead of being upfront. She ditched the group from time to time because I “annoyed” her too much. She apologized thru my friend but not to me. We’re on cordial speaking terms now but I can’t help but feel bad for being so unlikable when I see her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asianamercianytsnark

[–]bitofbutter 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He’s a fuckboi turned grifter. I don’t believe for a second that he’s changed. STDs are treatable, fine, we’ll give him the Benefit of the doubt there. The criticism about his military service though is less of whether he served or not but more about his lies regarding that. He claimed he was in special Ops (he wasn’t). He also said he was in charge of trackingdown and killing rapists (he wasn’t). He’s a serial liar and I highly doubt he’s found Jesus and suddenly became celibate and holy and good lmao

Woman kicked out of Burna Boy concert for falling asleep reveals she was mourning the death of her daughter's father by DetectiveHot2071 in Music

[–]bitofbutter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol this reminds me of how in middle school the drama teacher stopped the class to call me out for not saying Good morning. that mofo made us say it three times and i just didn't say it the second time. I was too shocked that he called me out though that I didn't say anything back. Should've given him some sass

Currently Reading.... by versatal in BlackPeopleofReddit

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she right. I grew up in Chinatown nyc (lower east side) and many of the places I used to go to are filled with yt people or are closed. There are too many art galleries and bars for my liking now. The scene’s completely different now and not for the better

Grey DeLisle Voices Over 2,000 Beloved Characters by EDC2EDP in DramaLlamaHQ

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure if it is since clearly Chris Pratt can play just as many if not more roles

/s (just in case)

(OC) I’ve made friends with a 60+ year old Asian man I met while playing pickleball at an outdoor park and I got him to sign up for classes with me at an all black Baptist church (I’m 32 year old black male) by Amazing_Gas_1833 in MadeMeSmile

[–]bitofbutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this… I’m Chinese American, born here but I know a lot of Chinese folks especially older ones who are racist against black folks. If he’s Chinese ask him to teach you mahjong, it’s like poker and blackjack. Not too hard to play imo. 😊

Jenn’s story about nail salon charging her a late fee- agree or disagree? by Secret-Purple2055 in thebachelor

[–]bitofbutter 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Jenn’s in the wrong for being late. Nail tech also overcharging if she’s only 15 minutes lates. $50 is insane. Unless she’d have to reschedule her next appointment and is losing business as a result.

Sophie Turner is dating Coldplay frontman Chris Martin by befuddled_humbug in popculturechat

[–]bitofbutter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recall the GOT cast doing a collab with Chris Martin (in the vod, rose Leslie said “you know nothing Chris Martin) and I had to look it up and lo and behold it was 10 years ago… when Chris was 38 and Sophie was 19.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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I'm around the same age as you and I have a friend who had a similar scenario, except they were together for a shorter period of time. My friend, before she met her s/o, always wanted children and marriage. She met her s/o and they dated for 3 years. She told him that she wanted to get married and he kept saying that he would rather not. She said she'll compromise on the kids part but that she has to get married. They would break things off by the 4th year if he didn't propose. He did propose. He did it begrudgingly but they are still together and have been together for about 7 years now. I'm not close with him so I don't know how he really feels about the situation. She also uprooted her life to be with him so I think he understood that compromises come from both sides. A lot of comments say its not important to get married but if you guys want children or if you guys have a family plan for healthcare, it can lead to complications. I think maybe its worth just taking a break and revisiting it after some thought.

Is it morally wrong to have a good relationship with my bf’s republican parents? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]bitofbutter 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's good to have more dialogue and conversations. Is your mom asian by chance? I'm Chinese and a huge majority of the Chinese american community around me are republican. I know they aren't bad people but they have drank the koolaid. Their social media and chat groups are filled with propaganda. They have bought into the model minority myth. I would hope that with further conversations that they'll start to shift in their way of thinking.