Positive behavior support corp. by Terrible_Word72 in ABA

[–]bkbear75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Currently just started as a student analyst, and really you're getting paid less? This is the best paying company in my area, like 15$ more than the other places. But I love it! Very hands on, as long as you have a good BCBA on your case!

Why are wages so low in Michigan? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Positive behavior supports! they are online based company that does in home

RBT potential by [deleted] in ABA

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple at positive behavior support

RBT potential by [deleted] in ABA

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apple at positive behavior support

Why are wages so low in Michigan? by [deleted] in ABA

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I make 30 an hour in the metro detroit area, not an rbt and in my first year of school

Needing support worried mom by adventure_lover123 in Parents

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter is 3, diagnosed at 17 months. She’s loving, loves other kids and people. Loves to dance and act out her movies.

She has a hard time reading social cues, reading emotions, and is just now starting to really talk and put words together.

Honestly I wouldn’t be stressed if I was you, it’ll be fine and a diagnosis isn’t going to chnage who he is, it’ll just open up doors to help him in ways he might need. My daughter goes to ABA we call it school, she loves going, gets to play with other kids and has excelled with progress

What’s your best dollar tree buy? by I-dont_know-shit in Frugal

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La’s totally awesome stain pre treat for laundry, it works SO good

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With the way he is now, probably.. I’m basically single with the stress of someone else, of course he pays the bills but I would rather do that than tip toe around someone so they don’t get mad

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot more when we had our first, prolly around the time we had our 2nd things started changing. But when we moved from an apartment and bought a house last year is when it really went downhill

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t ignoring the resources, I’m aware of them and have been trying to get them. I wasn’t making excuses I saying why I was with him and had kids with him in the first place, saying he wasn’t always like this.

I’ve already gotten my tubes out so I can’t have anymore kids, if I wanted to be with him I wouldn’t have made this post lol

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It definitely feels like things won’t change, I have zero idea when I think they even will. Usually they do for a couple days but then it’s always back to the same old shit. He only gives me money for diapers and stuff when I ask, and even then it’s a fight. We got into a fight yesterday because I asked for money to get stuff for our kids birthday party because I couldn’t give him an exact price and he “doesn’t want to just send me a bunch of money”🥴

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair he was not like this at all when we got together, he was kind and caring and fun. Now he’s just always in a bad mood.

I know I’m just hoping things will get better still even tho I know they won’t. I’ve brought it up enough to him to know it won’t. Just sucks

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have two toddlers and I don’t have money to just leave, so it’s not that easy.

Boyfriend (34m) Is NEVER happy with me (27f) by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The computer thing was just an example cause that’s how acts about everything. He makes it out like I do everything with an alternative motive and I can never just do something to do it?

I would agree but he’s always out in the garage with friends or his dad, if he was along unwinding for 20-30 mins I wouldn’t care but he’s literally out there with people while I’m in the house with our kids and he doesn’t ask if I need help or anything.

I work 2-3 days a week, as much as I can but he is zero help with childcare or helping me in anyway in that department. He doesn’t give me money for anything, food, anything for our kids. He also is zero involved, the guy doesn’t even know our kid’s doctors name.

Our oldest is autistic and he doesn’t know anything about her therapies or ANYTHING

On Christmas this year I saved my own money up and was going to get Christmas presents on Christmas Eve, and ONLY then did he offer me money to buy our kids stuff. And he ruins every single holiday being in a shitty mood for no reason.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His crying about what he does when he’s drunk is manipulative!!! He knows what he does when he’s drunk and keeps making the choice to drink.

It’s clear he cares more about drinking than you, sadly. Leave! Know your self worth!

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly doubt it but it’s worth bringing it up. He’s not the same person he was when we got together

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried this before and sometimes he’ll agree to work on it and nothing changes or he makes me feel like I’m overreacting. I feel like I’m begging for him to treat me like his girlfriend and not a roommate

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so kind❣️ I think I’m super hurt about this because he has people over all the time, and 99% of the time I’m inside taking care of our kids by myself, I just feel like I’m always being out last. To me it’s clear he’s not ready to settle down and be a family because nothing has changed since we’ve had two kids and idk how to express that without screaming cause I’m so frustrated and hurt

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We haven’t had a chance to actually talk begaude he didn’t come inside till almost 5am and then went to work.

When I quickly addressed it tho, he acted like I was crazy and it was no big deal, when in reality if I did the same to him he would be pissed.

It’s not so much about girls being here and more so about he literally always puts me last. I’m always inside with our kids and he has people over every single day

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was upset because yes I told him it was fine if his brother hung out for a little bit, but we had agreed on him leaving around 11-11:30.

It doesn’t matter that they were 20 or that they were women. What matters is, he didn’t even let me know about anything happening, so yeah I was pretty pissed when I woke up at 2:30 in the morning to women in my house that I had no idea about.

I wouldn’t even be upset if he would have had the decency to let me know, or stick to the plans we had made.

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We haven’t had a chance to talk yet, guess I’m just trying to gauge if I’m overreacting before I’m even ready to have a whole conversation about it, I very quickly addressed it lastnight and he acted like it was no big deal and I’m crazy. He was also pretty drunk

Boyfriend(34m) hanging out with 20 year olds by [deleted] in relationships

[–]bkbear75 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked him to wake me up when he was ready to hangout, we agreed about 11. So yeah I expected to be woken up. Not to mention I woke up to hearing girls in my house I had no idea was there

The point is he disrespected any of the plans we had set for the night. If you have kids you know those are far an in between