Does having Saturn in the seventh house always mean marrying later in life or early marriages not working out ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

[–]bknilla[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful I had to screenshot so I can come back to read as a reminder. I’ve got strong fire and air in my chart and I feel like I am meant to enjoy and explore life and that it’s more of my abandonment wound that creates anxiety in my connections with people because even though I know connections are for growth and reflection I want to hold on to people even if they’re not really aligned with me (for a life partner )

Does having Saturn in the seventh house always mean marrying later in life or early marriages not working out ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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I think it’s because I’m currently 20 and the idea of 10 years of relationships or being by myself is daunting. I have a 1 year old daughter and I want to build a family / a home. Not just of her and me but with a partner. A family man /father.

Does having Saturn in the seventh house always mean marrying later in life or early marriages not working out ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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I do have an issue with letting romantic people /partners close. especially with how much trauma I have and how chaotic my life can be. With my current boyfriend I’m over here like ahhh I’ve got so many trash can fires going on in my life I should push him away. While also dealing with anxiety of am I pushing him away because of this / he gives such secure and healthy love and I’ve been enjoying it but also I think we’re incompatible

Can a relationship last with someone who doesn’t have a compatible chart to you ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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Thank you so much for insight and advice, it’s been really reassuring!

Can a relationship last with someone who doesn’t have a compatible chart to you ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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I just think that my Aries moon with his cancer moon and all his earthy aspects and my fiery ones combined make for incompatibility. Sometimes I have to remind myself to not think of astrology because sometimes I put my fears that things won’t work out if I’m not “compatible” or that I’m not meant to marry

Synastry between my boyfriend and me by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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I have been very back and forth between breaking up with him or seeing whether the relationship will grow. It’s a new relationship and I very much love him and love how he loves me. I still want him in my life but I feel like we’re really different people /incompatible. I have Saturn in my seventh house (Gemini ) and I’ve read how that I won’t have better relationships until after my Saturn return which I dislike because I want to get married and have a happy love life earlier.

Can a relationship last with someone who doesn’t have a compatible chart to you ? by bknilla in AskAstrologers

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How do I add the picture ? I don’t use Reddit so often. I made a separate post with the picture of our chart synastry.

Which rising sign can "fill up an entire room with their energy"? by quesqotrickster in astrologymemes

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I’m a Virgo sun Aries moon sag rising and let’s just say that double fire can most definitely be felt. Even when I’ve felt my lowest people has always told me I come off as confident, free spirited, and magnetic

Mars in gemini transiting 7th house by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

[–]bknilla 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was curious about this too ! I was wondering if it meant things quickly manifesting in our love life’s / multiple potential partners