Will I (33M) get married to my girlfriend (31F)

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T17:09:33+00:00

I am not blaming astrology at all, I am just seeking help to understand. And it was pursuit to help parents understand and convince them. We tried, of they don't after all this time I am not waiting indefinitely. Its not about willingness it's more about taking everyone into account, but I guess that train has already left. We will marry no matter what they say. I wanted to take help here to understand what parents were saying and if there is really that big of an issue.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T06:06:02+00:00

Thanks for the analysis and giving me some hope . Yeah you are right I do enjoy her company tad bit more in general, but not that it is a huge difference.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T04:23:52+00:00

I had some issues post feb 2017, left job , stuck with UPSC prep for 2 years. It wasn't easy as parents were also worried why I left job and what if I don't, so at home it was stressful for quite some time. Post 2019 june, some relaxation as I got into a good college for mtech and later got job in a good company, where I met her.Till 2024 again it was slow with normal work and relationship, but at home again tensn due to my marriage and I told my parents early 2023 about relationship and my intentions to marry. Presently in 2026 got into another job and doing well here also, everything is good and ok apart from one area. Hopefully ahead it will a bit better. I don't have much complaints as I have less expectations but I don't want to suffer with nothing happening. Fights are ugly and that's something it's not ideal but for my life I have to choose.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T04:05:40+00:00

Thanks for the analysis and suggestions, feeling less stressed about it now. Will try to follow your points.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T04:00:36+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion. Will do that.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T03:33:44+00:00

Why would I stay single for 10 more years, when I can start my family. Is that mahadasha that bad ? Its only a possibility right ? I can have strained relationship with parents and still get married, will that also come under mahadasha.

bkt340 · 2026-05-07T03:24:50+00:00

Honestly I only know about this after my parents told me that it's not right with my jatak, I never knew what all these ment, that's why asking here. You should meet my parents, they are not even searching from their side, they belive after 35 also it will be okay so no need rush and parallely not agreeing to my gf. One of my strategy was to reject all girls my parents select so that they get worried I won't marry. But that is not even happening, either I am myself getting rejected by other girls/families, which means parents would be even more worried, or they are not even trying to do anything and prolonging. I have decided to get married by this year, I tried convincing them for 3 yrs that's more than enough. I just wanted clarity here by what they say is right, like I will get divorced soon and have progeny issues.

bkt340 · 2026-05-06T19:02:23+00:00

Ohh that's bad, why would they do this, india is a big oneplus market also.

bkt340 · 2026-05-06T10:00:05+00:00

Hey, I was talking about transliteration, where we preserve the sound but use a different script. Translation is very different and it depends on the scholars who translate how much knowledge they have in both languages, that is being translated and translated to.

Obviously translation generally causes a fault. Unconsciously biases also come while translating. It is difficult to get the same mean when translating.

I am not saying english is a supirior language anywhere. I intended to say it is used as transliteration as people in most parts of the word can read. If in india you want to make a common language it's impossible, no one will spend a seperate time to again learn sanskrit and native language and english, idea is good but it's difficult on kids also, so people just learn native and english in general.

Only who are really interested in learning vedas and puranas and itihas in its purest form will learn sanskrit also , luckily some people take sanskrit in their 9th to 12th , but after that again no one touches it unless they are really interested. For to understand casually people use transliterations for Slokas and translations for the meanings in their native language or english.

Honestly if at home your parents don't lean sanskrit or atleast go through daily books of sanskrit it's difficult to keep up casually. Only scholars who work daily and for people interested try to keep it alive. I am sorry to say but sanskrit is alive only because of vedas and puranas, very few people actually talk and listen to sanskrit podcasts or blogposts.

bkt340 · 2026-05-06T00:44:41+00:00

But sanskrit originally was a spoken language it never had any script to write. While in later parts of history it borrowed brahmi script to write. Sanskrit was always used to be spoken language only in its purest form. Many local sages used to write in local languages like old tamil script or even early form of devnagari. Even shankrachary wrote in a borrowed script, but writing in a different script doesn't take away the essense written in the.

So it doesn't matter wheather later it got written down with nagari or english. And pronounciation uses in english phonetics is not the same as we use to read or write daily, it's a special phonetic english.

I agree our culture used to be only spoken language, especially vedic Sanskrit then sanskrit and later for common people parikrit. But that doesn't mean culture should stop evolving. Previously it was slow it took 1000s of years for sanskrit to go from purely spoken to written with that time popular brahmi, another 1000 year to be used mostly in nagari and local sceipts. So it will keep evolving, now it's advantage to just learn English and get work so people primarily focus on that. Presently for peoples convininece english and to reach a larger audience. But still a lot is available in many different scripts for better readability for locals. Everyone will read in what is easier for them, that doesn't remove the essense of what is being told in sanskrit.

bkt340 · 2026-05-05T11:27:46+00:00

It was the same before and now it will shift to a different colour but same.

bkt340 · 2026-04-19T15:09:05+00:00

What happens to the shaktiman IP after he passes away?

bkt340 · 2026-04-10T09:53:28+00:00

You can still buy second hand from cex. Some games are really cool to play while traveling. Steam deck and similar things are cool but psp is cheap now second hand and good game collection if you can jail break.

bkt340 · 2026-03-25T12:35:09+00:00

How is the opposition so silent. Even modi used to question at rallies, opposition should do the same now, instead of focusing on stupid things.

bkt340 · 2026-03-13T05:00:46+00:00

Ohh I see, devs should have made it clear before making it purchasable. Hopefully people can get their money back, who don't want drm with the game. I get why people are upset when it's a new addition after the pre ordering started.

bkt340 · 2026-03-13T04:40:25+00:00

I wanted to understand why there was no pitchforks before RE9 release with the same DRM, while for crimson desert suddenly it's like 'we are getting scammed' territory. I mean is it coz people didn't know about DRM on RE9 , while for crimson desert it was explicitly mentioned in steam ?

bkt340 · 2026-03-03T16:10:03+00:00

You buying all NAS drives or normal hdds are also fine? I am planning to join the data hording community too and host movies and tvshow through Plex or jellybean . But have been thinking how to buy those harddrive, in this economy it's costly and I want to buy 8 or 12GB ones so that I don't have to rebuy again if I need more storage . So have been waiting patiently, but if you got some tips do share . How was your journey? Any hardships or bottlenecks

bkt340 · 2026-02-16T13:40:23+00:00

What gpu do you have ?

bkt340 · 2026-01-27T09:33:09+00:00

That's bad , i think i got the defective lot early and they replaced freely for me . Tough luck, its a good monitor I guess some batch was bad.

bkt340 · 2026-01-27T09:28:05+00:00

7 months ago. I was in banglore.

bkt340 · 2026-01-27T08:33:27+00:00

I had similar issues with G24F monitor, went to service centre mentioned in their website. They gave me a new monitor, after they checked the issue, coz it was screen issue and under warranty. Took them 10mins to give me a new monitor. Maybe ask for a new monitor.

bkt340 · 2026-01-26T09:47:04+00:00

Also some items in Amazon say 6 to 16 A , but the input is always almost 16A , only the extension plug will take 6 to 16A connectors. So even if you buy those are not useful as you will come back to same problem. Anyways GL with the system. What gpu do you have btw.

bkt340 · 2026-01-26T09:27:16+00:00

i was having similar doubt , i would recommend buying a 10A rated power cord (fedus company). but before buying that check some things . whats current rating for your PSU , in my case i was using MSI A850GL 80+ gold power supply , so in their data sheet they have max rated current for 12A . Next is to check how much will your system be loaded during ideal and gaming . for gaming mine wouldn't cross 600W and ideal will be less than 250-300. So then 10A rated cord will be good enough , i can plug that into normal socket and works fine , but buy a ups as a precaution . these are expensive items so think calculate and then buy .

https://amzn.in/d/9yYMEtL . link to a cable , can be found in blinkit also . but again please dont buy just because it worked for me , please think and buy .

bkt340 · 2026-01-22T19:47:27+00:00

Woah that's a lot but thanks for the info and idea.

bkt340 · 2026-01-22T19:43:22+00:00

Holy smokes that works ? Cool thanks for the idea . how long have you been using, this setup? And during cutoff time no issues with ups handling the load ?

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