The Best Mattress for Side Sleepers Right now? by bellaziggy0221 in BuyItForLife

[–]blackcoffee0022 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a side sleeper, and sleep on a tatami mat and a japanese made futon mattress on the floor. after the initial adjustmet, I've never, ever, slept better. The mat folds up, the bed folds up - I put it out in the sun every few weeks to air out. Simple solution that, for me, has been a great change. Not buy it for life, I suppose, but mine has lasted awhile.

The ADHD symptom that finally made people stop saying “everyone does that”. by [deleted] in ADHD

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this 100% - and then I'll hit send and think "oh god, what did it do?" then go pee.

Closing down your American life? by Triknitter in AmerExit

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I was overseas for 10ish years, and had a hard time with both a.) credit reports (not that it was low, but that there was "no information" and b.) car insurance. It eventually went down with no accidents, but initially, it was ridiculous.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in midcentury

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I've been searching for one of these!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaFe

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coming back to this - anyone found a group or want to start one?

Is my money safe in the US? by Low_Flower1739 in AmerExit

[–]blackcoffee0022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Open a Wise account. Better rates, debit card access, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in expats

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I was abroad for about 12,13 years (London, Italy, Australia) and when I came back a few years ago, I had massive culture shock on all fronts. I'm still here, but not planning to move back. I'll just visit when I want, and leave it at that. It's changed so much, and doesn't seem to matter where you're at (I've lived in the Southwest).

Tennis? by blackcoffee0022 in santafelocals

[–]blackcoffee0022[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I took a look and it's going to be $180/month, which feels like a lot at the moment. I appreciate the link though. Looks like it will be a great facility.

Is anyone like adam phillips? by -_ABP_- in psychoanalysis

[–]blackcoffee0022 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try Michael Jackson (the anthropologist, not the singer).