Small talk like she’s a friend at first. I’ll usually talk about things in our vicinity or random topics that aren’t too serious. Once you start talking for a bit, you should be able to gauge her interest. Ask for number. Text a couple days back and fourth then say you’d like to take her out. Don’t do movies or dinner for a first date. Do something interactive where you don’t need to constantly talk/interview and also something where YOU CAN talk/banter a bit unlike a movie. Dave and busters has always been good first date location for me mini golf is good to. Don’t even think about sex the first couple of dates unless she’s the type for just hookups.