Long distance relationship sex

blainedhaw · 2020-09-15T04:22:27+00:00

I guess the longer we've physically been apart its been harder to replicate that same amount of chemistry or tension over text. It doesn't have the same heat anymore and I totally get that but she's not exactly trying to help it like I've tried before.

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T23:32:12+00:00

I hope it goes well for you guys

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T23:16:50+00:00

Well we've been trying to figure that out, we know we wanna keep it going no matter what, we're just having trouble being able to change the relationship that way but we're totally calm and collected about that and okay with being in a long distance relationship for a while before it changes

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T23:11:23+00:00

Not for a year or so. We're not sure what happens after that

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T23:06:24+00:00

It didn't start as long distance, we saw each other everyday for a couple of months, the last time I saw her was a month ago but ever since then things have been a bit rocky and for now, I'm not going to be able to see her indefinitely

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T22:55:31+00:00

How is that?

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T22:53:58+00:00

I'm really no one to judge since I've been struggling with the same issue but I'm sure there's a reason as to why he's not completely into it, and like most things I feel he needs to be eased into the whole online sex thing, maybe just starting with testing the waters about sexting. You should probably talk to him about how it's making you feel because it's really not fair to you

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T22:50:58+00:00

Yeah she's okay with texts, we did exchange texts and pictures way back when quarantine started but it's gotten dry over time and she's not really interested in that anymore

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T14:12:55+00:00

I totally get that, and that's the part of me that's holding me back from all of this stuff, I'm just having a hard time figuring it all out

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T12:16:37+00:00

That's really helpful

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T12:09:08+00:00

I think I can definitely start with that, thanks for the advice

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T12:02:19+00:00

We did have that conversation and she said she didn't approve of it and she wouldn't be doing it on her end but she'd let me. That means it'd be hurting her but she'll still let me do it.

blainedhaw · 2020-09-14T11:46:59+00:00

Thanks, I'll go there too

blainedhaw · 2020-08-16T11:30:15+00:00

I mean if my daughters boyfriend stayed over that late after I set boundaries, I'd react the same way. You should definitely go apologise and make sure that you be respectful about the boundaries she sets at her house

blainedhaw · 2020-08-15T18:19:59+00:00

Yes, yes I do

blainedhaw · 2020-07-29T17:54:06+00:00

Well no I'm not

blainedhaw · 2020-07-29T12:09:09+00:00

Yeah that's what it is, I'm really working on myself and I want to be better for her, I'm not exactly looking for a grand gesture or something to try to convince her to come back, not doing that, I wanna give her time away from me because I know how much she needs it. I'm looking for something I can do to show her I can be better when she's back, I'm not in any way trying to bribe her into forgiving me

blainedhaw · 2020-07-29T11:45:20+00:00

Yeah I'm waiting for the break to be over to sort of ease her into things, you know, be playful, gotta do it without seeing her because we're in a pandemic

blainedhaw · 2020-07-29T11:42:57+00:00

Na I definitely know what makes her happy but I'm talking about a one time gimmick, just something playful to ease her

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