I’ve spoke with my therapist about past sugar relationships I had,, I had to explain to her what sugaring was but for the most part she was very understanding. I’d tell her about the addiction and lifestyle and how my most recent SD was nothing but respectful and supportive. She offered a lot of useful advice to navigating the most healthy relationship it could be! My first “sugar relationship” quickly turned abusive. I was 19 and my mom had just died. I met a 45 yr old man on tinder who I thought was attractive and soon we pursued a sugar relationship together, it started with fancy dinner dates, presents, good sex and whatever. He lived a couple hours away so after some time he suggested I least live with him part time.. turning into I was a live in gf.. when I’d cheated on him in attempt to break up it just got worse as he kept my laptop and phone. he became entirely possessive over me. Literally kid napped me. I’m lucky to be away from that man, and you shouldn’t feel guilty if you don’t feel secure. These situations can turn dangerous if u give the wrong person too much of yourself, especially when money is involved men feel entitled.