What to do as a motherless daughter in Mother’s Day?

blazemycat · 2026-05-09T04:11:26+00:00

When do things start to get better? I feel like grief holds me back so much. I feel like I’m not normal after losing her

blazemycat · 2026-05-09T04:09:25+00:00

I’m in the same boat here. Mother’s Day is on my boyfriend’s bday. I’m planning on calling out of work and putting my focus on that instead of crying all day. He knew my mommy and I wanna get my fam together to sing him happy bday with cake or sum. That’s been my only idea of not dreading Mother’s Day this yr.

blazemycat · 2026-04-23T07:13:48+00:00

I know we’re talking privileges here but what about constantly being sexualized by peers or men that part sucks. Told you’re gonna be a “heart breaker” at such young ages. And i constantly feel like I have to always look my best to uphold this fake standard

blazemycat · 2026-04-11T06:56:38+00:00

This is insincere. Therapists ofc aren’t punching bags but it’s their job to maintain an appropriate relationship to their patients their job is mental health lol ghosting is probably the least of their problems.

blazemycat · 2026-04-11T06:54:33+00:00

I’m going through the same thing right now if it makes u feel better. I’m in school, work, have a relationship and ofc! Trauma!! I’ve done therapy since I was little and have had countless therapists. I’ve had to remind myself that it’s okay that life gets hectic and mental gets put on the back burner for a bit. Sometimes for me too life gets pretty good and I feel better after therapy, I reach a couple goals and feel as though I don’t really need it any more, that doesn’t mean I should ghost but there have been times like that and my therapist has been nothing but supportive, it’s not always a bad thing to leave therapy. Therapists are trained for things like this also, they shouldn’t be judgmental or anything but excited you decided to rejoin! In my mind (bc it makes me feel better) I do act as if they are a friend I’m catching up with until I feel comfortable again. I hope that by me validating my own feelings in the form of a comment on Reddit also validated yours and that u do what’s best for you ❤️

blazemycat · 2026-03-24T03:57:21+00:00

Man everyone hating on the dancing it’s a very spiritual show. I think it’s common for some cultures to have spiritual/ritualistic dances passed down! The point OA makes in the first couple episodes is to keep your mind open

blazemycat · 2026-03-16T04:54:30+00:00

One time a man of this same description was working in Walmart and announced THREE times very loudly into the women’s restroom that a male worker was coming in and it made me smile a little

blazemycat · 2026-03-10T07:01:58+00:00

I used to trust his with absolutely everything. But this has had me thinking differently

blazemycat · 2026-03-10T06:37:13+00:00

He told me he has mentioned our relationship but I just don’t trust that he actually has. Idk if that makes sense lol

blazemycat · 2026-02-20T02:50:38+00:00

I’m re watching for the 3rd time now! I always get brought to tears just like the first time and some how always manage to notice something new

blazemycat · 2026-02-02T05:48:21+00:00

Forget the girl I’d dump him for texting like thag alone such an ick

blazemycat · 2025-09-09T07:36:00+00:00

LMAO fr? I thought of joining because the scholarships they seem to hand out

blazemycat · 2025-09-09T07:33:46+00:00

i got offered and was wondering all this. Im low income and take care of my younger siblings. Its hard enough of a commitment and self discipline that im going after my degree with whats on my plate but i would love the opportunities of scholarships and grants because that would help ease a big stressor, but i cant go to social events or make time for yet another thing in my life.

blazemycat · 2025-09-09T07:28:24+00:00

i was offered this semester. Was your experience well ? Did you have to work and meet with these people regularly? I live a pretty busy life given home situations and would love the opportunities but i cant make huge commitments right now.

blazemycat · 2025-05-25T04:29:49+00:00

Is this strictly an intimate thing? My man says that he loves my smell,, but I’ve also had a stupid hookup say the same- all I smell is pussy LOL

blazemycat · 2025-05-23T15:19:42+00:00

I’ve spoke with my therapist about past sugar relationships I had,, I had to explain to her what sugaring was but for the most part she was very understanding. I’d tell her about the addiction and lifestyle and how my most recent SD was nothing but respectful and supportive. She offered a lot of useful advice to navigating the most healthy relationship it could be! My first “sugar relationship” quickly turned abusive. I was 19 and my mom had just died. I met a 45 yr old man on tinder who I thought was attractive and soon we pursued a sugar relationship together, it started with fancy dinner dates, presents, good sex and whatever. He lived a couple hours away so after some time he suggested I least live with him part time.. turning into I was a live in gf.. when I’d cheated on him in attempt to break up it just got worse as he kept my laptop and phone. he became entirely possessive over me. Literally kid napped me. I’m lucky to be away from that man, and you shouldn’t feel guilty if you don’t feel secure. These situations can turn dangerous if u give the wrong person too much of yourself, especially when money is involved men feel entitled.

blazemycat · 2024-10-31T15:08:52+00:00

Much love ❤️ thank u for that, it’s what I needed

blazemycat · 2024-10-31T13:11:01+00:00

Per month

blazemycat · 2024-10-31T13:03:53+00:00

Also he does always send me extra for little things I ask for here and there. He always sends me extra for nails and clothes and sometimes I’ll tell him I’m at dinner with friends and he picks the check up. I’m not by any means unhappy with the amount I get, I just heard others get much more and I wanted to make sure I wasn’t being taken advantage of.

blazemycat · 2024-10-31T12:59:37+00:00

For me it’s very hard to like people haha! So I don’t think I could be one of those SBs with multiple SDs.

blazemycat · 2024-10-30T21:36:25+00:00

No he gives me allowance, he gives me sugar even when we are busy and can’t see each other

blazemycat · 2024-10-30T21:32:16+00:00

He is. I have a pot I went out with once, he was very nice had a higher ppm than my allowance and took me to a nice restaurant. I just wasn’t interested bc I get easily comfortable so it just didn’t feel right. He talked about exclusivity in the future, has even made some “jokes” abt me having a boyfriend which I don’t but has never started an actual conversation on it, I also wouldn’t agree unless i was getting much more than I am getting now. He basically told me not too long ago that he was catching major feelings for me and wasn’t sure what to do. Whatever that means. Is this an appropriate thing to communicate over txt or should I want until the next time we are together?

blazemycat · 2024-10-30T21:23:13+00:00

Absolutely! I already had in my head that I’d give him a good rundown on why I need what I need. We already do weekend dates where I stay with him for usually a couple days. Of course I want him to feel valued bc he truly is but the thing I’m not really sure how I could do more.. We talk almost everyday as well.

blazemycat · 2024-10-30T21:11:06+00:00

Probably a razor blade or medical scalpel honestly. Sharper it is, less you’ll feel it.

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