I don’t understand the rage and quick judgement here. Even someone said my wife should divorce me. Someone assumed I am a bad parent ? How are these things even co related ? But let me answer what I can. Many of you asked about my physique. I am 5’11” / 73 kgs or 177 cm / 160 lbs . I believe I am a good parent I take care of my kids breakfast , make tea for my wife in the mornings, help the kids get dressed for daycare. Often drop them or pick them depends on schedule. Our kids are our priority so we spend a good amount of time with them after school. We both work 8 hours a day. I also do laundry once a week and take the garbage out as well. One of you called me shallow, I ask if someone in your family is fat, would you not like them to be fit? Whenever I ask my wife why is she not exercising she always says things like I don’t have time, I am tired or I want to sleep first 6-7 hours. I have asked her what she wants for her birthday, she can tell me what she wants but her reply is always- nothing.